I'm a "Flexiterian"

It (Flexiterian) is one of those newly coined words we are all so good at doing.  Well, I got this one from Kindle.  As you know, I'm attempting to become a vegetarian.  Kindle was very kind and sent me some definitions of vegetarian, vegan, and flexiterian.  (Maybe it is flexitarian)  Anyway, I know I'm not a pesciterian or a chicketerian.   (don't you hate it when the darn cursor jumps all over the place - I think it is the touchpads) - where was I - what a discombobulated post this will be.

Flexiterians have a more flexible, yet healthy diet.  We eat meat (other than fish) once in awhile.  I like that, because I like a good steak from time to time - and those frozen bison burgers (pre-cooked) are a very nice quick snack - and I do like sausage with my spaghetti.  I have learned over the past few weeks - as I begin this journey - that I do not crave red meats nearly so often as I used to.  So, I'm definitely making progress.

New topic:  Carolyn has finished her cataract surgery's and seems very pleased with the outcomes.  We will be heading for Angel Fire, New Mexico early September.  It is a beautiful drive and we stay at the Angel Fire Resort.  I may play a round of golf on their course.

Speaking of golf, I have not made the improvements I expected to make this year - I guess that will come.  I will say that I'm consistently inconsistent.  I shoot a lot more 9 hole scores in the low 40's, but tend to spoil it all with a 2nd nine in the high 40's or low 50's.

All in all things are good - had a nice long phone conversation with my eldest son the other day.  I'm so glad I'm not part of the corporate world anymore.

So - have some great moments - I'll be writing again soon!

Men are from Mars -- women aren't!

I swear... we speak the same language, but nothing means the same.  Carolyn and I have been married for 43 years - we have a rare philosophical discussion - we tend to understand each other.  Its the little things.  She'll say something that I think I understand.  I'll do it, and it wasn't what she said to do - I repeated what she said - she said "that's what I said",  I say, well "that's what I did" - she'll say,  "no, it isn't."

Of course, Carolyn is always right - always, really she is right -- I'm just not hearing it right.  I do love her so very much.  It is simple things having to do with the computer or fixing something or whatever, but especially the simple things.  I'm technical, I take a lot of shortcuts when it comes to computers, email, email attachments and that sort of thing.  I tend to be less patient when it comes to things that I think are very simple, but can be very complex to others - especially those who are more analytical and need to have things discussed in a more detailed manner.  I still think it is a language issue.  I've said it before we have too many words that mean too many different things - some spelled identically and some spelled differently but pronounced the same - to, too, two - you know!

Well, enough of this drivel - more some other time!

August 1st - Yesterday; August 2nd - Toda

Strange but significant.  Yesterday was Dad's birthday - thought about him - and all the different ways that he loved us - wonderful man dad was - I think he lived a rich, full life.

Lewis and mom called to make sure I got the model cars and wondered when they would be arriving in Montezuma.  I will mail them today or tomorrow.  It something Lew works on when he visits home.

Today, August 2nd, Carolyn has cataract surgery.  We leave shortly for that - so for now, just enjoying a cup of coffee.  Its 66 outside, no golf today or tomorrow - for that matter, no total fitness class today either.  I'll have to think of another way to get some extra exercise this afternoon - before it gets to hot.

Today will be full of many very interesting moments.

Follow Up to Last

So today - I'm going for veggies and fruits - no meat whatsoever... I even had a Southwestern Blackbean Salad when I ate out with the guys after golf.  Pretty good - a bit pricey I thought.

I also joined Silver Sneakers - and Carolyn bought me some -- with silver sparklies.... Tuesdays and Thursdays will be my days, and maybe, Friday mornings.  We do have a great Center for Active Adults here in Aurora.  Now, I'm not going to be as "active" as Carolyn, but I do hope to slim down and tone up some ( a lot actually).  I have to if I'm going to make 116.

That bird is still nesting in the little house in the tree out front.  I have no idea why, but they are fun to watch.

I've been working on a design for a front yard patio - nothing fancy or expensive, but a nice place to sit on a cool evening - If I can figure out how to keep the skeeters away.

Kairi and Gramma Carolyn are swimming.  they'll be home soon and I'll still be sitting here with this computer.  I think I'm on it more now that I'm retired, but it is a lot more fun!!!!

On Thinking of Being a Vegetarian (and my sister's birthday)

No kidding - I've been giving this vegetarian thing a lot of thought - then it strikes me, never to taste a crab, a piece of fried chicken, a nice juicy fillet mignon, walleye, catfish again.  so I say to myself after I eat one more each of these, then maybe.  Well that would take years -  !  then again, there's always going it cold turkey (no pun intended.)  So, how do I go about this, because I do think I am serious.  (Is there some in between, like a fishaterian - I might could do that. )  What about eggs, I love eggs - eating them that is.  I'll have to look up all the rules.

Carolyn asked me to watch this show called - "Eating".  Well its like we eat ourselves to death - but, I've also seen folks at 112 that were not vegetarians.  They just ate could portions, had a shot of vodka every day and didn't live in the city - that's another approach to it I guess.  So, why this sudden interest or urge?????  Frankly, I don't know the answer to that one either - but it is definitely there.

I know that I have to lose weight.  I've known that for some time.  I'm joining Silver Sneakers - I have an appointment with the head physical training maven on Thursday.  Carolyn is dedicated - I need educated - but am not dedicated (more obsessive I think she is, but it works for her!)

Oh, yes, it is my sister's birthday today - Happy Birthday Jacque-lee (pronounced Jack - lee.)  In the photo, I'm the good looking dude on the left - she's the cute chick sitting next to me.  She's changed a bit over the years, but then haven't we all.    (Sister Sharon isn't in this picture for some reason -  )

Well - thats all for the moment - maybe I'll take this vegetarian thing slow - one or two meats a week (one red - although I've really cut back on red meat - one white - fish, chicken, pork - that sort of thing).  Eggs will be tough - maybe vegetarian's can eat eggs, I don't even know that one.  So, lots to learn and lots more to think about - why would I change my ways now?  Well life is definitely about change - "the only constant in life is change!" Not my words, that's why the quotation marks - but, I have no idea who first said it - probably Anonymous (that guy or gal says a lot of things that eventually become very famous quotations.)  Anyway, I'm rambling, that's my way -- live some great moments today.  Each and every one of em is yours to do with as you please - life is all about choices.  We make some good ones, some outstanding ones, and some of us, some very bad ones - and hopefully we learn from all of them!

Virtigo - Sticker Shock - other stuff

Ambulance - 1350 dollars

Emergency Room - 2350 dollars

A healthy wife - priceless....

How did it get this way.  Its more than a lot of people make in a couple of months.  I got to grouse a bit anyway.  

I have three new mosquito bites.  Some golf courses have lots more than others - location, location, location -- this one happened to have a lot of swampy areas, so, I guess, a lot of mosquitoes.

I highly recommend Pat O'shay's bar and grill in Longmont.  Good atmosphere, great menu and excellent food.  I had a burrito.  That was after a round of golf.  55/46 - one of my poor front nines - no money changed hands, the match was even up - I lost the front and won the back.  My drives are very inconsistent - that is because my set up is different every time - you'd think I could remember and take the same set up much more consistently.  It is just a simple visual picture.  Oh well.

It has been terribly hot in the afternoon - I hope it starts cooling down a bit.  We've had moisture, but none lately, so I turned the sprinkler system on.  One of the heads in the front yard needs fixed-- I think it got ran over by a car.  some folks came down the other day and said they had nipped the bumper on the pick up and drove up on to the yard -  pick up was okay so no harm done, I didn't think to check sprinkler heads -- now that I look the tire tracks are right over them - so that is probably what happened.

Gutter guys are coming over this morning - gonna get an estimate on new gutters - absolutely pine needle and leaf proof - we'll see.

There's No Sleep Like It

Your sitting in a comfy chair,  the computer is on your lap (it is, after all, a laptop)... your finger is on the touch pad... 1/2 hour later you wake up to find -- well, you've been out for 1/2 hour....

My Birthday Has Come and Gone

65 Years Young -  that's the PC way to say it these days.  My daughter, Kindle, made me a Black Bottom Pie - an old recipe.  She had to make the effort to get the recipe from my sister Lana - get all the ingredients... awesome and it tasted it great.

The day was really nothing super special, Kindle and Drew dropped by.  Heather forgot, but Carolyn reminded her and I got a really nice hug.  Miah called - all in all it was nice.  We went out to the Fresh Fish Company - one of our favorites.  Boy has it gotten pricey though.

I felt the need to write today - nothing really philosophical or very important.  Well what a surprise, sister Patti just called to wish me a Happy Birthday.  We had a very nice conversation... made my day.  She sounded very happy - well... enough for now.  Write more later.

Moments, Precious Moments

Yesterday - was a rescue day.  Carolyn locked the keys in the trunk of the car.  Rescued.  An event later that evening rescued... but that event brought to home how very precious our moments with each other are.  Lanny, call mom at least once a week.  What about staying in touch with your brothers and sisters?  Why not do the things you want to do.  Call th grandkids.. Going to the movie with Trenton on Friday.  That is definitely a good thing.

I didn't play golf this morning. Rescuing again.  Yesterday I also fixed the screen door and tried to clean the windows.  I used everything, windex, super windex, vinegar and water, soap and water... some of the dirt on the screen door windows is so baked on, I can't get it off.  Any hints.

I talked to sister Sharon the other day.  That was  nice.  Well, maybe I'll write more later today - and, maybe I'll find a picture too.  I like pictures.

A Little Sister's Birthday

My sister Patti has a birthday today.  We called and sang - Carolyn and I.  Patti was at work at the new Safety Center in Montezuma.  This is the Patti I remember as a kid... I have a lot of very nice memories of her when she lived here in Colorado.  She now has a ranch or "ranchette" in Iowa -- where they board horses and such.  Frankly, I don't know how old she is this year - she still looks damn good.

My birthday approaches and sister Jacque-lee (pronounced Jack-lee) has one in July as well.  I told you I had family on my mind the last few weeks.

I think we'll be taking a trip back to Iowa later this year.  The "Class of 63" is having a reunion - it has been scheduled for homecoming weekend - nice touch me thinks.

Carolyn and I watched a DVD of Depak Chopra - 7 Spiritual Steps of Success - a lot like The Secret  - but different as well.  I think it was very interesting.  We also went to see "Shrek" (the newest one).  It got off to a very slow start, but once Donkey got involved - it was a lot better.  All in all it is worth a viewing.

Well as Depak says "be in the moment you are in..."  I agree.

Good Things

Kids, and grandkids, moms and dads, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles - good friends, pets, birds, squirrels, most all animals, eagles, crickets singing at night, fishing, music, golf, life, moments, smells, feelings, tears, joy, sorrow, tickets to a show you love, theater, art, air conditioners in the summer, heaters in the winter, rain - I love the small and feel of rain, fishing, places to go, a home and roof over my head, a good night's sleep, a fresh cup of coffee, Coca Cola Cherry Zero, a good single malt scotch, a great glass of wine, babies, grandparents, kisses, making love, leaning, moments, the smell of fresh mown grass, discovering, adventure, camping, staying in a nice hotel, dining at your favorite restaurant, Samurai movies, chalk, rubber bands, tickling, being tickled, laughter, a child's first words, a good debate, water, food, chocolate, mint chocolate chip ice cream, windmills, traditions, challenging tradition, UFOs, smiles, grins, old fashioned donuts, apples - nice and crisp, a lettuce wedge covered with blue cheese dressing, catching night crawlers, fireworks, taking risks, tenderness, compassion, letting go, feeling free, being me, you being you, helping a friend, being a friend, sunrises and sunsets, the moon, the stars, musical instruments of all kinds, flying first class on a long flight, train rides, playing cards, Dilbert, Woody Woodpecker, a child's first steps... there's a few seconds worth of thoughts!!!!!!

It's a Bright, Bright, Sunshiny Day

That's a song you know.  A bright, beautiful, joyful song... This morning was a wonderfully cool morning.  Carolyn and I went bike riding.  My butt could only take about 45 minutes - she road about 70.  Her trike seat is much nicer to sit in when pedaling. (that's my excuse and I'm sticking with it!__)  It has also been a very productive day - I'm getting rid of some small items that I've been collecting over the years, moved an air conditioner from a little used office to a room where it is needed, and made room for the trike in the shed!

We are going out to dinner tonight (we didn't get out on Father's day).  I like Famous Dave's and that's the place.  When my birthday comes, we'll likely go to the Fresh Seafood place -- big discount this year. Watching a Hershey's commercial.  I love Hershey's chocolate - and fudge - and black bottom pie (mom used to make it) - I'd love some again.

I thought we'd see a rainbow today, but alas it was more bluster and thunder than rain.  Carolyn is having lunch with the WOW gals - kind of a reunion meeting. I hope she is really enjoying it.

I got an email from my little sister (one of them) this morning -- it really helped, so, a new mood should be apparent.

I found a guitar book I've been searching for and thought was lost.  I guess it's time to get the darn thing out and start playing again -- there could be some campfires with the grandkids in the near future - right on!  I've found my moments again - ain't it great!

Can You Hear a Heart Being Torn in Two

It is a wrenching, tearing sound - that bleeds from the eyes.  I'm always so full of hope (last blog) - yet somehow, hope is not enough and action must be taken.  This is where values and integrity clash with the feelings of the heart.  A promise broken is a promise broken - but is there a way around it, or would that just be a devious way to break the promise  -probably so me thinks.  So, I'll think on it some more and see what happens.

It is sad that there is now time on our side, yet the chasm is vast - so allowing time to heal.  Is it necessarily true that time heals all?  I think not.  I do believe that there is one gender that tends to "not forgive and forget".  Maybe it is all genders - it just isn't the way my mind works.  (anyone reading this would not have a clue what I'm writing about - except those who "might know" first hand)  Someone has to take a first step, but I promised it would not be me.  Funny how promises can get us in so much trouble - when if revealed would clear up a lot of things, but, a promise is, after all, a promise.

I long to get back to Mirror Lake - Carolyn would prefer a cabin me thinks... so I'll see if something is available.    I know the picture doesn't seem to have anything to do with anything.  But, it was from a family journey to Iowa - where Brooke said, "This is paradise".  they were also amazed by the size of corn

In the end, the heart will take us to the right place... I've got to have faith in that - I've got to.

Hope

There it is.  Each day is filled with hope - hope that when I open my eamil or chat that someone I love is there and wants to say something - but alas, not today, nor likely tomorrow or the next day.  But, there is still ever and always hope.

Yesterday we golfed at Saddle Back in Ft. Lupton - 96 - not great - I had some really stupid water balls and some really weird wasted shots.  Nothing worse in golf than wasted shots - penalty strokes, out of bounds, water, lost - you know, that kind of stuff.  At least I only lost 2 bucks... it could have been a lot worse.  A friend says I'm an addict - such a harsh word!  I do love the game though.

Family in Iowa says they are getting lots of rain.  We've had tornado warnings and such the last three or four days in a row, but not a drop of rain.

we are thinking about going to Blackhawk for my birthday.  I'll have to check it out and see how pricey it is this time of year.  I've been working to get our dental plan, medical plan, all that stuff up to date.  Everything changes at 65 - I just get a bit older and a lot wiser.  I think I'll check out Kabatogama too.

I've been wanting to head up to Mirror Lake to go camping.  I'm working on Carolyn... Taylor park ( http://www.coloradodirectory.com/taylorpark/ ) does have some rustic cabins.  Maybe that's the way to go.  We could still spend some time up at Mirror, then fish the Taylor Reservoir and the Taylor River.  We have not been there since the kids were kids.  We have fond memories of some of those fishing trips!  A lot of great moments that we still share from time to time.

Lost

I guess that's the feeling.  I don't know.  I'm in a quandary - it is about loving and letting go I think.  There are times when life is a little bit tough, but there are lessons to be learned from that.  It would seem easier, though, if we didn't have to learn those lessons.

Family is such a precious and yet fragile thing sometimes.  I think that the phrase "you can only hurt the ones you love" or to put it another way, "be hurt by the ones you love" is so very true.  For some, forgive and forget is just not a part of their psyche.  For others it is a way of life.  My mind is like so much pliable putty - but sometimes, based on feedback, maybe I'm a bit stuck in my ways and my philosophy.  I don't believe that I question my values or my integrity - so what is it that I am so "lost" about on this particular day.

It has been quite good.  Mandy, Jeremiah, and Kairi met us for coffee this morning.  It was a nice visit - they shared their trip to Disney Land with us.  We saw some great pictures.  They, and Carolyn, then went to see Toy Story III.  I stayed home to watch the U.S. Open.  After the movie they came over for lunch.  It was a very nice visit.

I chatted on line with Heather - she and her family had just returned from a camping trip.  It was nice of Heather to share how that was one of her very fond childhood memories... camping, and Mirror Lake.  I'd like to get up their this summer.

Kindle and Drew get back from New York tomorrow.  Chad is still in Gulf Port.  I'm sure Wendfal and the kids really miss him on this day.

I'm very proud of our Children - they've all had their struggles, but they are so beautiful and have such wonderful families -- and each in their own way, are very successful and bring a lot to this world.  So, maybe, on reflection, I'm really not "lost" at all - just enjoying the thoughts I have of our children and grand children.

As for tomorrow... it will come.. I'll be playing golf with some good friends and will have a great day with many, many more wonderful moments.  Everything will be fine.... if not fantastic.  May you be blessed in all you endeavor!

About Dad's

As I sit here this morning, drinking coffee and thinking about tomorrow, I suddenly miss my dad very much.  It didn't hit me so hard last year - but this year, for some reason, it really is.  I was fortunate, all of us kids were, that we got to spend so much time with him at the end.  Right now, the tears just can't stop flowing and they probably shouldn't.  He was such a wonderful man - handsome and very powerful in his way.  I can still remember his first hugging me as an adult - on the porch step at their new home.... I started with the usual handshake and he said "let's have a hug!"  That was different for him and for me and it was always hugs after that. This is mom and dad in 1991 - Mom is 87 now.

Dad was a strict disciplinarian - I remember how he was with his tools... and there was hell to pay if we didn't put them away after we used them.  I understood that later in life - when I found rusted tools outside that the kids forgot to put away.  He had an appreciation for everything he ever bought, because it was hard earned and there were lots of mouths (7 of us kids) to feed.  He taught us the value of hard honest work and especiallyBimidgi Minnesota with Dick Arndt and my brother Michael - Mike and I planned the trip and drove the old blue Chevy pickup truck - dad and Dick slept in the bed (they had built a cover for it) for most of the trip - we had a great time, then I was off to the Air Force.

I have the happiest of memories of dad, mom, and family.  Mike and I used to mow lawns in the summer, scoop walks and driveways in the winter, and then, in our spare time help dad with his electrical business.  We learned so much.  the girls delivered papers and mowed lawns too.  I think at one time, three of us were delivering papers for the Des Moines Register and Tribune.  Dad would tell us, no matter the weather the paper would get delivered.  If they could get them to Monte, we could get them to our customers homes.  And we did -- snow, sleet, rain, sunshine, whatever -- we did it because we made a commitment to do it and what we committed to, we did.  Dad was always there to fix broken down mower or bicycle - and he taught us to do the same - that is where we all (all of us children) learned the value of a penny, the value of keeping our commitments, and the value of learning everything that we could possibly learn about everything.

Dad loved to bar-b-que and we always had (Tuesday night I think) - bar-b-que.  It was either at home or at the lake, Diamond Lake.  It would be steak or burgers or hot dogs, even frogs legs.  They were great times and nothing took precedence... not even band practice -- mom came to take us away from practice one night, telling the band director that it was family night and "nothing interfers with family night".  I don't think he ever had band practice on Tuesday night again.

When I close my eyes right now, I can see his big toothy smile, his lanky 6' 1" frame - and hear his gentle but very firm tone.  I never once heard dad yell, but I always knew he meant business and was full of love.  I hope I have given my children just a smidgen of what dad gave us.

Two (2) Followers and Golf Course Bathrooms

I'm truly blessed.  There are two admitted followers to this blog.  I know there are more, because they've said so.  I'm on my third and last glass of wine.  I hit level 600 in Mafia Wars this evening - so, I'm celebrating.  I'm golfing in the morning - 6AM - gonna work on my short, long, and medium game.  I had a good round on Monday and a fair round on Wednesday.  No consistency.  If i'm gonna reach my goal, I have to be more consistent.

New subject.  This is not your typical golf course restroom.  (For some guys its a tree.)  For some reason, I like taking pictures of some of the "fancier" golf course necessary rooms - that's what I call 'em.  Heck, I can't even remember what course this was on-but, I was impressed.  The best one I've seen was on the Thistle... I was so impressed I took 5 or 6 pictures - gotta see if I can find one of them.
Can't find it right now, I tried.

MT said it was pretty fancy inside as well.

I took the Zenith cabinet outside and cleaned the surface today. I got most of the paint and other foreign material removed.  Need to use some cotton swabs to clean up the edges and crevices of the rest of it.  Then - what ke to finish this project in a month or so.  I have some of my dad's woodworking books.  They should help with some advice.

Carolyn is off to crocheting class with her sister Susan. I'm watching the US Open.  Pebble Beach is something else.  One day! (In my dreams)

I'm thinking about going fishing next week.... Quincy reservoir for Muskies.  It's Kindle's birthday tomorrow.  Heck, I don't even know what day of the week it is... Oh yah, Thursday - it was Wednesday pie night last night.

Enjoy your moments.  I enjoy mine so much I don't even remember what day it is!

A Good Round Today

A memorable moment at Pine Lakes in Myrtle Beach.  The ball was at the very edge of the water, another inch and it would have been a dreaded "Water Ball".  Note the awesome form.  A good clean strike and the ball (which you can see in the air) is headed for the fairway.  I parred the hole.  (Boy that word looks weird!)  If there were a wave, it would definitely lap the ball.  But, it was a pretty good lie.

It was really a wonderful shot.  Today was a great golf day at Coyote Creek.  I was very relaxed, took my time and made one shot at a time.  I shot a 44 on the front and a 47 on the back.  I won the bucks today - a first and hopefully not a last.  Tomorrow is men's league at Fitz.  I'm actually looking forward to it.

I liked watching the Haney Project with Ray Romano. Hank's coaching made a believer out of me.  There is a golfer inside me somewhere.  I can be more consistent and I will break 80 one of these days.

I think I'm still on East coast time - I'm tired, but didn't sleep well last night.  Looking forward to a great breakfast burrito in the morning.

Well things to do - so, enough for this evening.  Please have great moments!

When the Mood Strikes

And it hasn't for awhile.  Note that somewhere in the first paragraph, the title should make sense.  If it doesn't, then I'm just plain off balance. (which happens from time to time).  To answer the question, I write when the mood strikes.  This is sort of a follow-up on the balance of the trip to MB.

So, we next played:

1. Prestwick CC (that's Country Club- you can tell by the opulence and the million dollar homes) 18 holes
2. Pine Lakes CC -- the oldest course in Myrtle Beach - where Sports Illustrated was conceived - 18 holes
3. Moorland at the Legends - where we held the traditional Banana Split match and where I lost once again

So I paid off my banana split bet and Bob bought me a scoop of "Rum Raisin" ice cream.  Its hard to find rum raisin ice cream anywhere and it was awesome!  Gordon also lost.  Mil and Bob once again were the victors. But, there was a three way tie going into the 18th hole.  I folded under the pressure (even after an awesome drive).  Mil and Gordon tied and it went to a putt off on the 19th.  Mil won!  Good for him-he does like banana splits.  I can't believe how fast he can go through one.

We found this awesome old ice cream parlor on King's Highway - Kirk's Ice Cream Parlor.  It is nostalgic to say the least.  A pink facade building with two huge rooms.  It boasts a great camera collection and old Pac Man machine and other such memorabilia.  It is hard to see how he can keep it open - but he does and the ice cream is, well, the best. (That's Mil in the picture by the way.)

Today is travel day.  Heading for the airport after breakfast.  There have been some very memorable moments on the trip.  Enjoy yours and reminisce about some of your great moments.  Make some more memories today! 

Where are We?

It is a good question - I'm not even sure what day it is... so, we played:

1. International World Tour 27 Holes
2. True Blue and Heritage 36 Holes
3. The Pearl East and Leopard's Chase  36 Holes
4. Parkland at the Legends 18 Holes

Favorite True Blue, Leopard's Chase, Heritage, The Pearl East --  (relaxing and no houses on the course).

For the most part, the courses are in pretty good condition. The greens have been everywhere from lousy (International World Tour) to fairly decent (True Blue).  The toughest part from day to day is figuring out the greens, especially speed and "trueness".  The slowest round was at Heritage - no Marshall, 5.5 hours, argggg.

The others were pretty average from 3 hours and 45 minutes to 4.5 hours.  Health wise, things have been good. I did have a couple of muscle spasms at Heritage and dropped out for two holes... sort of like cramps - nothing since then.  

I think the best part for me is the beauty of the place, but one tends to lose track of that.  My golfing is certainly inconsistent - brilliant at times and just plain unspeakable at others.  

I need some "alone" time, so I'm not going to "supper" with the fella's tonight.  I'm having a great time - bringing a bit of laugher (my swing) to the group.  Oh the antics as we play. Oh the games we play.  I decided to play a $6 Nassau with the best golfer in the group - I'm behind, but not totally out of it.  

I'm just me, what else can I be?

True Blue and Heritage Plantation

These are really beautiful golf courses-each with its own very special character.  I had a 94 at True Blue - don't know what I had at Heritage.  It was a beautiful day in fantastic surroundings.  I don't have the web site addresses for either of these courses, but they are both on Pawley's Island in South Carolina - about 24 miles from where we are staying.

It was just a really great day - not much else to say!

We Went to the Golf Course - One of us Played, the rest.....

It is truly like I say.  Gordon, Bob, and I struggled.  Mil played like he was just totally zoned in.  I was on all winning teams though, so I won the mooola.... well, tomorrow is definitely another day.  We are playing Leopard's Chase - supposed to be a really tough course - why do we brutalize ourselves so.  But the guys love it and love to grouse about it a bit.  the fun is being with them, enjoying the camaraderie and such.

So, you ask - what did you shoot Lanny?  Lots - 56/57/56  (we played 27 holes).  But, I didn't get the most water balls or the worst score, so I'm not too disappointed.  It was a very nice day too.  It was actually cooler here than in Denver.

I Video IM'd with Carolyn tonight, that was nice.  she called with an internet problem... I make a pretty good IT troubleshooting guy.  I even remained calm and patient.  That was good.

I'm looking forward to 36 tomorrow.  After Leopard's Chase we play the Pearl East.... should be wonderful!

Have a great day.

The World Tour Golf Courses

Our first course of the trip is the World Tour courses  ( http://theworldtourgolf.com/ ).  We usually play all 27 holes.  I love these courses. The web link really tells the story.  Tee time 8AM!

Confusion

yah, Okay, sometimes I'm so confused and don't even know what I'm confused about.  Couldn't help myself.  Just something that struck me as important to write - as I was tweeting with a nephew.  Nice here in Myrtle.  I'm at the airport waiting for the rest of the guys - sitting in a corner with an outlet -- watching the scenery go by.  Shapes are interesting, youth, middle-age, older and so on.  I certainly have lost my youthful shape.  Some would say I was too darn skinny anyway.  Others would now say (maybe the same ones) that I've gone too far the other direction and they are likely more right than wrong.

Why do we hurry to the belts as the call the luggage thingys here - when they know its going to be 30 minutes before the luggage gets here?  A time to visit with those who came to pick you up I guess.  Its much different at a small airport than it is at a large airport.  My ride isn't here yet - won't be for another hour or so - but I like just passing the time and, as I said, watching the scenery - .

This may well be my last blog of the week.  I don't know if our condo has internet.  If it doesn't I won't get any sympathy from the others - so we won't be stopping at Starbucks or Atlanta Bread or MacDonalds or VI -- amazing a lot of those restaurants are adding wireless these days -- one manager said to cater to the "younger crowd" -- heck its catering to me too.

I'm hitting titleists this year (that was a quick subject change - with no transition statement) -- oh what the English teacher would say!  And, there, I did it again.  D-.   Well - I've got the swing confidence to hit a Titleist now.  Its just a damn golf ball after all.  I see a lot more pros are using Srixon, Bridgestone, Callaway these days-- Titleist still has the edge... I wonder if the cameramen get a cut if the show the logo on the golf ball?  Oh the things I wonder about.

Families - lots of families here at the airport and tons of golf bags..... Its good to see cherry children, parents, and grandparents.  (Well probably not tons of golf bags, but lots of golf bags -- )

Life is good, enjoy!

Myrtle Preparation Day

I think I'm better prepared for the trip to Myrtle Beach this year.  The bad part is a "red eye" flight.  The good part is, I think I can sleep on the airplane.  It cost so much to fly my clubs and baggage one way that I just upgraded to first class -- baggage was free and the seats are more comfortable to sleep in.

I can't help sharing one more Canada picture.  This is at a place we call "The Wall".  It is really the English River - anywhere from a couple of feet to over 60' deep down river as it meets the big lake and some of the islands.  The fish are strong in the river and this is a real nice 24.5" fish.

Back to golfing.  I'm packed, the clubs are ready and I took one session of coaching from Sean.  I gotta think less and just have fun shooting low scores.  Part of the preparation, you see, is mental preparation.  I've discovered that I can hit a Titleist golf ball.  That was mental too ( the fact that I didn't think I could hit one...).  I do like the feel of the ball, but not the price -- I don't use ProV1's.....

A note on Costco -- still the best damn big box warehouse around.  Their Concierge service is out of this world.  I had to take my Kuerig coffee maker back... They looked up the receipt and handled everything graciously, efficiently, and accurately.

Well, gotta wrap up preparations... ya'll have a really fabulous day - I know I am!

Obviously!

Quite Obviously-- I missed several days of writing my thoughts.  What can I say -- kinda of "thoughtless"?  Well we did get back from Canada - it was a great trip.. some beautiful sunsets and sunrises - as can be seen in the attached picture.  We got back Sunday evening and we are just finishing all of the unpacking. 

I'm just about ready to head for Myrtle Beach.  Catching a red eye flight Sunday - just after Midnight Saturday.

Just wrapped up a two day spring men's association championship - flight 3 - I did not do well -- but i think my game is tuned perfectly for Myrtle.  I'll find out soon enough.  (This text used to wrap, why doesn't it wrap?)  One day I'll figure it out -- when I get some time.  Need to get the lawn mowed too.... so much to do!

(I'm watching Iron Chef - I love the show -- for some reason, I really like cooking shows.)  Who won the latest Survivor - I sincerely hope it wasn't Russel...

Living and loving life!

Treip day - 6 - I figured that out...

Carolyn is all set!  It was a bit cooler yesterday - but the sun was still bright.  The boat is running good.  Adjusted the trim today - I don't have power trim - so it is a bit more difficult than one might think.    

For some strange reason I'm sad today.  I don't know why, just am.  Perhaps I will figure it out, perhaps I won't - I don't think it makes any difference.  My brother and I will be getting up a bit early (though not earlier than today when we were the first on the water) to do some serious Northern Pike fishing.    I think he's hands down, a better Pike fisherman than I am.  We'll certainly find out.  

Carolyn caught the nicest fish in our boat today.  Picture tomorrow -- enjoy your moments folks, each and every one of them!

Trip day - a, hmmmm Not sure

Must be having a good time if I don't know what day it is.  It is beautiful up here, but I'm a pint low on blood after today's walk with Carolyn.  Talk about mosquitoes and not being ready for 'em.

The fishing has been really good.  We had plenty to eat Saturday evening and Sunday evening.  tonight is grill night.  Wes caught a really nice northern - 26" - just under the slot limit up here.  I'm a bit testy today - well a lot testy.  Because, I really didn't want to go for a walk -- and then the mosquitoes got me - and, I forgot the stuff that you put on the mosquito bites.

Carolyn started her puzzle - now way will it get done because Glenn and Marci aren't here to help and the rest of us really are not puzzlers.  Though we are puzzled.

I'll add a picture later of Wes's big fish...

the Trip - day 3

This happened yesterday, so what.  Carolyn was a like a kid in a candy store.  what the heck, it was sort of on the way.  She took lots of pictures which will be posted to Facebook or somewhere.

Today we drove from Kenora to Ignace.  A short drive.  We had pizza at a Pizza Hut in Dreyden... Not your grandfather's Pizza Hut.  Totally different menu than the US - and, it was fabulous.  We had a Greek Salad and a Mediterranean  Pizza - really, really good.  We got all our groceries for camp and are having a restful evening a the White Otter Inn - we've stopped here for the past few years.  They made some nice improvements and the water in Ignace is finally drinkable!

Tomorrow morning, breakfast, petrol (that's what they call it up here), and minnows -- then headed North!  Life is good - nawwwwww, it is absolutely great!!!

The Trip - day 2

I know, I kinda missed reporting on day 1 -- 3 hours driving in the rain, but we made it all the way through the Black Hills - ate lunch at Cheyene crossing... It was awesome.  A quaint restaurant on the corner (crossing) Wyoming to the Dakotas.  The food was outstanding and the people - well they were real.

We drove on to I94 - and stayed at the Trail Blazer - it was fine.  this morning we drove to Bismark.  We spent about 3 hours in Bismark.  Why, because the Alien Cafe Bar and Grill didn't open until 1lAM so we had to kill a couple of hours at Starbucks.  By about 10PM Central we were in Kenora, Ontario -- The further east we got, the prettier it got.  We've driven Highway 1 many times.  It is said to see that Graffiti has drifted North of the border.  This is the first year we saw graffiti on the cliffs along the highway.  It was kinda sad.

We'll do our final shopping tomorrow in Dryden, then on to Ignace for the night.  Vern's in the morning. (After breakfast) then on up to Press Lake.  Lake of the Woods looked beautiful.  Seems dryer up here than it was last year.  So much to enjoy - each moment is so full of so much!

12 Hours and Counting

Rain, sun, rain, sun, rain... all ready to go.. Pictorial blog on the way.  I can't find my fire wire?  Where did that thing go.  Watching NCIS  One of my favorite shows.  I guess I'll have to take the darn card out for the picture. Oh well - I was hoping.  It is more of a nuisance than anything.  Running through that mental check list, just to make sure we have not forgotten anything, but, we will have forgotten something - that is just the way it is.  I will find that cable, I will.  This is about 1/3 of the stuff for the two of us.  All packed and ready to go by 5PM.

I can't wait to set the hook on a big walleye.  I really am anxious to have one for dinner too.  I'm so happy that two of my siblings will be there this year.  Mike and Lana - awesome.  This will be a fantastic trip with some fantastic fishing.  Many, many, many enjoyable and extraordinary moments!

Sunday - Starbucks - Swell Stuff

We are here once again, hoping against hope that one of the kids will show up.  we have an open invitation - may have to buy your own offer.  Perhaps - not always -- we will buy.  Miah and Mandy were here for Mother's day.  Chad and family looked all over for us, but didn't find the right spot.  So much for keeping cell phones secret.  (remember they are for away from home and travel only!)

Trip to Canada is soooo close.  We usually pack too much or too little, maybe this year we'll get it just right.  Not...but, it is a dream.  I keep think take this, no, don't need it, won't use it.   Got the boat ready yesterday, th spare tire is good - but I need a lug nut wrench..  more later.

Surprise, Surprise, Drew and Kindle dropped in.  Cool They are looking good.  Makes a mom and dad very happy!  And another surprise -- Heather got there early - so we were able to enjoy her and Aubrey...  Later, Susan and Larry came by.  It made for some wonderful conversation, catching up, joy, laughter - really wonderful.

So, now I'm snacking on chips and getting more and more excited about heading North..

Not Quite a Broken Heart

My heart is not broken, but it is saddened.   There's a certain fickleness about human relationships.  It is hard to understand, sometimes, the intricacies  of the human psyche.  There is a book and has been many written on the subject.  I've read a few of them.  Somehow they don't come close to the connection that there is between head and heart -- or, is it all just emotion or ego or whatever.

It is a blessing that we are all so very different, but it is also a curse.  I guess that is the yin and yang of life isn't it. It is what makes us make war I think.  We are so "intolerant" of the slightest foibles -- sometimes even in the ones we love so dearly.  It is said (at least I think it is) "you can only be hurt by the ones you love!"  And that can hurt so very much.  At times I think neither party or parties really know what has been done, nor what can be done to heal the rifts.

It is sad, but sometimes one can not be sure there is a rift -- or, is it just a miscommunication!  I miscommunicate a lot - which at least means I'm trying to communicate.  But when there is none - is it because that is the way it is desired - or because, just because.

The grass (changing subject) is particularly green this morning.  It is that way following two days of rain and snow and more rain to come.  Canada is just a few days away.

Our grand daughter Autumn graduates and will start a big change in her life --

Buddha is looking for just the right spot!   How do they (dogs) know when they have found just right spot.  It is easier for me to drift from a difficult topic than to continue to write about it.

I've tried - I think, but maybe not hard enough- these are the moments that can be difficult - but there is always a sunrise after the sunset... day after day after day and that is a very good thing!

Where does it go? Time?

It is what it is.  A second is a second, a minute a minute, and so on.  Though there has been some research that supposedly shows why time seems to pass faster as we age -- I suppose if I looked it up, I could give you a web link... but who the heck cares as long as you endeavor to enjoy each and every second, minute, and so on that you have!  Nuff said on that subject.

But - I've been remiss, yet again, at maintaining my daily blog (journal), missives, thoughts and such.

The weather, believe it or not, is rain turning to snow this evening - with 4-10" of white stuff expected.  It will be heavy and wet if that happens.  Obviously I'm hoping it doesn't.  But, it has already started to rain and the temperature is dropping.  Tomorrow's golf tournament has already been cancelled.  As luck would have it I have a tee time Friday at Ptarmigan - so no biggy.  ( I guess biggy isn't a word as the spell checker shows a wavy red line beneath the word.  I could care less, I'm using the word anyway.)  Why shouldn't I?  Lockheed Martin coined many a word in their whitepapers and such.  If they can do it, I can do it.

How about that big stock market scare the other day!  I'm hoping they find out what was behind that.  I think there needs to be a few more safeguards against all the problems that this automated computer trading can cause.  Perhaps we should go back to some of the more tried and true ways.  Then again.. who knows.  Maybe the same thing could have happened.  It just seems to volitile right now.

Well that's it, that's all she wrote (I wrote) and can think of to write.  Canada is less than 10 days away.  I am so looking forward to hitting the road and backing the boat into the water to wet a line and catch my first walleye of the year!

Saddlerock - Nothing but Uphill

Saddlerock is a great golf course.  I'll not walk it again.  16 holes are up hill -- 2 par 3's bring you back down to a mile high.  What a trudge.  But, once again, our foursome of seniors (one 75 year old) was complemented on our excellent pace of play.  We played the course in 4 hours and 10 minutes.  I shot a 97 - Loren had the best score of the day, 94 - he was really driving and putting well.

It was windy.  Tomorrow is league at Fitz.  I may just ride a cart. Buddha still has a sore paw, but i think it is getting better.  He enjoyed playing laser light this evening.  But he still favors it.  I need to find out how serious Megan is about taking him.  He loves sitting on the couch with us.

Well, getting close to Canada time.  Got lots today, best get with the program!

Get Real

That's another one of those words that has a different meaning depending on how it's spelled.  You know, get real or reel? What a way to start the day.  Only about 19.5 days to hitting the road to Canada and still so much to do.  We got the boat out on Cherry Creek - all is well.  We passed the Zebra Snail inspection with flying colors, though there was a bit of winter wet still in the tank - I don't understand that, because the boat was well covered for the winter.

Lawn clean up today - looking for the Canada coin and paper money - put it in an envelope marked CANADA - somewhere.  You know, one of those safe and sure places where you know (no) you can find it at a moments notice.  Kinda like everything else I can't find when I need it - tape measure, volt meter, pliers, hammer, flat bladed screw driver, 1/8" drill bit, golf shoe spike wrench and on and on and on.  Like mom once told me "It's a good thing your head is attached!"

I'm betting all mom's tell there kids that one.  I think I told one or more of my kids that - I've never heard of so many lost keys, drivers licenses, school identifications, and of course - home work!

We broke down and got cell phones again.  The absolute cheapest, no contract, pay as you go phones we could find - how else are you gonna call AAA when you need em, or find your spouse in a Walmart?  So, they are dubbed urgent use only - and that seems to have a pretty broad definition.  We say its one for the car and one for the truck... we've stuck by that pretty well.

Buddha hurt his foot.  I've got to take him to the vets this morning.  I'm not sure what happened, but he limps or hobbles and sleeps a lot. Dogs seem to know how to heal.  They know a lot of other things too, like how to love unconditionally.  He so wanted to play chase the laser light last night, but just couldn't do it.  He stares at the laser toy (hanging on the wall) when he wants to play.  Funny how he can hear me take it off the hook from three rooms away - now there's something I don't lose?  Why is that?

Have a great day, week, month, year, decade, century!  Here's to yah!

Today

Well, today was a good day - like all days.  I got the  sneezes today -- what is in the air, whatever it is, zowie, lots of sneezes.  Canada is closer.  Still have not had the boat in the water.  I have no excuses - at least I think I don't.  Mowing has started, yard clean up is well under way.  I got my wood chipper. It works on twigs, not much else.  I think the blade drum is dull as can be.  I'll figure out how to get it sharpened.

We saw a movie today - "Date Night" - lots of hilarious moments - a pretty good flick, worth seeing.

I played better golf this week.  Looking forward to getting better all the time.... have some great moments ya'll!

The 24th of April - When words don't come!

Maybe they just shouldn't.  what's wrong with a blank mind.  I look out th kitchen window.. Woodpeckers in the apple tree.  Tall fall weeds bending with the wind from the north - trees shaking as if cold - green buds dropping to the ground like rain -- no son for three days now - had to turn the furnace back on - the grandkids slept in the basement and they were cold.

Carolyn is off to her Saturday exercise class.  I told Trenton I'd take him to the movies today - gotta go pick him up.  Squirrels bounding across the top of the chain link fence, then to the neighbors wooden fence.

The grass is moving with the breeze - the tips looking almost silvery as they reflect what light there is breaking through the very overcast grey skies (never do get that word right - gray vs grey).  (oops, glad there's an undo).
Hope the neighbors don't start their wood burning stove... if they do, I'm gonna go see em about the smoke and fumes that get into our house somehow.  That can't be healthy for us.

Saw an eagle again yesterday - that is always such an awesome sight.  I never have my camera with me when I need it - why is that?  There's a pressure change, I can feel it in my ears - you know the feeling.

Buddha is resting at my feet, under the kitchen table.  He likes it by the heat register.  Katie used to like that too.  I wonder how she is getting a long with her new alpha.  I think good, because we have not heard from them lately.

I've communicated with brother Mike almost every day - its awesome - its through a web game, but who cares, it has been a really good reconnection for us - at least for me.  I miss Iowa family more than I think I do.

Our Canada trip is just around the corner now.  Got the Canada clothes out of the closet this morning.  Still have not checked out the boat.  If it were Canada I'd be out on the lake-- but its Colorado so here I sit in the kitchen drinking coffee and writing words that all of a sudden were there to put to the screen

Life is good - each and every moment of it!  Have a great day full of great moments!

A Birthday -

It's our eldest son's birthday today - 39.  Carolyn and I called and sang Happy Birthday... hope we don't have to pay a royalty.  It's something we like to do for our kids and grandkids.  He has sure come a long way.  His daughter graduates from high school this year.

We found a home for Katie (one of the dogs) - she'll be very happy with her new owner.  Buddah is taking it very well.

It was Wednesday pie night at Vi - we took Megan with us.  It was a nice time and the triple berry pie was delicious. I just had a salad this evening - because I had my Wednesday hamburger and fries. I played pretty well, 91 - but my putting was absolutely awesome.  Beautiful day! Beautiful moments!

I also bought my wood chipper... and a gas powered edger (used - good price).  Gotta get the yard work started...

Does Katie Have a New Home?

Well, maybe.  We interviewed someone and she really liked Katie... but don't think it worked out.  But she had a friend who Katie may work out with.  Westie's are diggers and Katie dug up her plant bulbs.... What can I see.  I hope the new, new home works out better.

Went to Megan's birthday party today - 21 - our eldest grand daughter - awesome.

So yes, just a few statements of fact or observation as it were.  Not much else to say.  I do hope Katie is happy and does not come back..  I miss her.  I cried, but Katie and Carolyn and I are better off this way.  Buddha is next - when Megan is ready to have him.

I'm Not as Committed as Julie

Carolyn and I are watching Julie Julia.  It is an interesting story - and Julie is far more committed to her daily blog than I am, and a far better writer.

I got my fishing license today, only 11 bucks - but, not permanent, just for the year, but you can't beat 11 bucks. Gotta get that boat out on the lake next week, no ifs, ands, or buts.  My dad used to use that phrase - though I'm not recalling in what context.

I'm thinking I should go hit some balls tomorrow.  Got a box full of golf balls from a friend in Minnesota today.. Mostly Titelist.. used to be I couldn't hit one -- I can now, it was all a defect in the space between my ears. Golf is such a mental game.  Life come to think of it is a mental effort ( not a game_) - more like an adventure - but we do have choices and those choices are somehow made - sometimes in a flash, sometimes painfully slow.

Maybe I'm a bit "manic" - I don't know.    I love life - I love each and every very precious moment.

Getting ready to go to Canada - and Myrtle Beach....   Life is good, no, life is great - I wish I could say that like Tony the Tiger!

What Can I Say?

Who comes up with these titles anyway?  I do.  Why are they what they are?  Well these words just seem to strike me when the urge to write strikes me.  That urge has not happened frequently of late - I don't know why, it just hasn't it.  Now Carolyn - such a discipline that lady has -- journals every day, walks 10K every day, yoga and tai chi almost every day.... she's awesome.  

Golf league has started - stepping things up.  I played three times this week - Improved each time, that's the good news and there isn't any bad news.  

We still have not found a home for Katie... the 15th of May is the absolute deadline or I'll be looking for an animal shelter.  I told Carolyn I would make the picture brochure today - go to the vets, PetSmart, PetCo, every thing we could do to make it right and to find her a home.  So I'd best get on that one right away!

Writing, Blogging, Journaling, Whatever

I have found it difficult to put my thoughts into words  - at least the written word - of late.  So, it has been awhile since I've updated my blog.  It is probably best to start with the mundane.

I've had a gout attack - I think it was brought on by "fudge" - yah, "fudge".  I don't even know if that is on the list of foods to watch out for.  And, instead of my big toe, its more like that bone that sticks out the side of your food, just below that on the inside of the foot.  It hurts like hell.  yes, I said hell.

I golfed today.  I have not played well for about 4 weeks.  On about the 13th hole, something clicked and my drives started being drives again.  About time.  Now to just try and keep that up.  I've been playing horribly and it isn't as much fun as when I'm playing better - because I know I can play better.  I'll probably play three times this week.  Today, league on Wednesday, and Thursday with Dick.  Dick had the best score today - and he's the oldest among us - 75 I think.  He didn't start playing golf until he was 60 something.    He is such a different person now than when I worked for him.

I think we all change after we retire - for the better.  Some work situations have a very negative impact on us. And if we try and fight that negativity and maintain our personal values -- it can be very stressful.  That's probably why I find retirement so very relaxing.

And so, life goes on -- once I start typing the words seem to flow - its the getting started that's the hard part.  For me, its a healthy thing to get it down - helps me to be in the moment!

Birthday Girl

I guess, like any 7 year old, the shirt says it all.  We had a great time at the Hard Rock Cafe... plenty to eat, lots of smiles, fair food - I don't know how the burgers were, the BBQ was average at best.  But, most importantly, the company was really good and the birthday girl (who picked the place) was very, very happy.

My ankle hurts - don't know why.

Looking forward to the masters - good to see Tiger playing again - I could care less about his private life - that's private.

Had 2" of snow on the ground this morning, folks were playing golf, soccer, and whatever in their shorts this afternoon - that's Colorado for you.

Letters about Canada started to flow today - its only 6 short weeks away.

golf lesson on Saturday.  Looking forward to playing some golf with my grandsons later this year - and with Wolfgang as early as the 2nd week of May.  I played in the snow on Tuesday - 57, 47 - not good, but, my wedges and irons were much better than last week - so of course another part of the game had to go to pieces - law of golf... at least for us occasional golfers.  the golf course, one place I ought really be in the moment eh!

"Peaceful Warrior"

A movie - "Peaceful Warrior" - about an athlete, a gymnast  - rings.  The movie is about life and about the moments of life and being in the moment - it is worth watching and really has some strong life lessons.

Yup, that's me at Myrtle Beach.  I know it is a quick change of subject - but I'm playing golf in the morning. And I just erased half of what i wrote.  So what the heck... It wasn't meant to be said.

Carolyn and I are watching "Slumdog Millionaire" - another good movie.

We thought we had a home for Katie - well it didn't work out, so looking again.  Life is good - and the present moment is fantastic!

Life's Challenges

What can I say.  Yes, this was just a few days ago.  And it really isn't what is on my mind, but what is on my mind isn't for this particular venue.  Life is full of challenges - some easier than others.

This was easy, the sun took care of the problem.  Other things are not quite so easy - but nature and her assistants help us to take care of many things.  Surely these meandering words don't mean much to those that may read them... maybe they want even remind me, sometime in the future what I was thinking.  It did all start on April Fool's day and it may need be over for some time - but it will come to an end and all will be right with the world.

I have my pick up truck back, full of gasoline as requested.  I'll be able to get the boat and trailer hooked up and take it out to the lake for spin and especially to give the motor a good test.  Last time I had it out - I forgot to drop the peg so that the pitch of the motor was correct - I was wondering why it didn't seem to have much oomph.

I took a golf lesson today.  I also had the lie of the clubs adjusted.  So much more consistent results now.  Looking forward to playing next week - and to many wonderful moments.

April Fools Day

I don't know what the history is and I really don't care.  Today was about family - those who live close and those that are far away.  No matter the distance, family is the most important relationship we have.  Even if we are not getting along we can depend on one another -- even if we see each other's faults, we love each other, even if we can't see each other, we can feel each other - we have our differences but we also have so much joy and the very many things that we share - the moments that we have had together and apart make us who we are.

In sharing our sorrows - we reduce the sorrow that we might otherwise bear alone. (not sure that's the right word - burden is what I mean).  This all has nothing to do with April fools day, but it all came up today.  Thank you family for all of your most precious support, thoughts, prayers, for the gift of you!

Bicycle

Road it today - about an hour.  1/2 to and 1/2 from a meeting.  It was nice and I enjoyed it.  I don't have a darn thing to day today.  Long night last night... full of absolutely exasperating moments.

A Bike Ride

I just got back from taking the dogs for a good long run.. I ride the bike, and believe me, they run... except when they have to go.  Boy can they put the breaks on .  Anyhow, we saw our first robin of the year today. they were gathering nesting material from the rushes and dead grasses down by Sand Creek.  The dogs were paying attention too.  You'd think they never saw a robin before.

They are tuckered when they get home.  I guess they realize it is a time for a good rest.  I enjoy riding the bike too.  Stopped by the "fix it man" to see if he had any wood chippers.  He did, I'm buying it.  Perfect size for doing all the twigs and small branches and will - in the long run - save me a bit of money on the ground cover for the xeriscaping.  I've been studying drip system conversion for two of my sprinkler zones.  That job is going to be a lot easier than I had originally expected it to be.  Enough for now, I'll be back with more later.

The Westies

Well, we are looking for a home for Katie.  Buddha is Megan's.  Carolyn and I love these dogs dearly, but they are just tying us down.  We tend to be adventuresome -- want to leave on a whim and really can't with two loving dogs to take care of.  Kennels are out of the question - expensive and well, I've never had a good experience with kennels.

They look like they already know... a bit sad, but they will be happy and love whomever they are with.  We are going to be careful to find Katie the right situation.  She's very active and has a lot of love to give.  Buddha is kind of like a Buddha - stoic, easy going, and extremely intelligent. Don't they look sad.  Well, I'm a bit sad too. But when i was in Iowa for a month, I did really miss Carolyn - if we didn't have dogs, she could have come with me... Well, that's the story and that's that.

Megan will be on spring break soon and will take Buddha.  We have the responsibility to find a situation for Katie.  They have both been through intermediate training, are neutered, house trained and very, very loving and playful.  they are Westies and do like to dog - so a special digging place for them is very nice to have.  We'll miss them, but we'll have all the freedom that we really want right now.  We are hoping to get this all done before heading for Canada!!!!