Lanny's Ramblings

2012 - What will it bring?

2012-01-01T08:15:00.000-07:00

Another New Year's day. No partying for us last night - it's why some of my relatives ( no names) leave town for this celebration - well, because some of us just don't celebrate. Carolyn and I watched a few episodes of "Tommy and Tuppence Partners in Crime" by Agatha Christie. I think the series was one of the few where Agatha experimented with a lot of sexual innuendo in a very playful sort of way and with a lot of double meanings ( I wanted to use the word "entendre" but no clue how to spell it.

I thought it would be appropriate to add a picture - that's Berry Berry in the tree. Mary Berry wasn't around the day this one was taken. Anyhow, this is still when the tree had lots of berries for Berry. As of today only a few are left so Berry and Mary will not to find a new food source.

We didn't (the guys and I) play any golf in December. We had lots of snow so the courses were not clear. But, we do have a tee time for January 3rd - it will be good to get out on the course again.

I've started this new year with no resolutions - what will be, will be. Today I've already adjusted the automated light and fan in the bath and cleaned some 20?? cobwebs from the ceiling. Carolyn pointed them out yesterday - I guess I missed em when I really thought I was doing a very thorough job of dusting on our last cleaning day.

I also MogPoged the puzzle we put together - one of Carolyn's Christmas gifts (from me) was a box of 10 various sized Fairy Lore puzzles. Our first was a 300 piece puzzle - the largest is 1000 pieces... I know for some these are not a challenge - for us its plenty. Folks can have a good conversation whilst making progress on a picture puzzle.

Today, being Sunday, we'll like do Starbucks then I'll watch the football game. This season could be a surprise season for the Broncos. We'll see. the last few games have been interesting and fun (except for last week maybe).

I need to get to work on the annual Myrtle Beach trip. I think we settled on the dates. I got confirmation back from the rest of the gang of four. It is now up to me to make the reservations and pick the courses we'll play - pressure.

Ah well, there is something to be said for living in the moment. I don't think one worries much when they do - live in the moment that is.

Prayers for Aunt Joyce and Uncle Bob - I think Joyce is dad's last living sibling - Bob, her husband is clinging to life. Carolyn and I saw them last when we were in California five or six years ago.

Last year was a big year for Carolyn and I - a new home, parties bigger than we've ever had in the past, lots of family visitors - it has been a joy to watch and experience Carolyn - I think she's having fun entertaining and I find I enjoy cooking breakfast for folks and cooking meats for the celebrations. Life is good!

Enjoy your moments this year - each and every one of them!

The Urge to Write or Berry!

2011-12-12T15:17:00.000-07:00

It has been almost two months. Two really exciting and interesting months so I last posted - why? To tell you the truth I have not felt the urge during this time, nor have I been too busy to write. But, today, for some reason, I just had to write something.

We've had a lot of "parties" since moving in - almost 4 and 1/2 months ago. We've had family, Look Ahead friends, visitors and now a son and grand daughter are making their home here with us - for awhile. It has been good.

Berry, well he's the squirrel that hangs out in our backyard. Kyrie named him because he's eating all the berries off a tree. That squirrel has practically cleaned the tree - it has been his own feasting ground - and it is almost totally harvested. Berry looks healthy - if not a bit fat, hmmm. Nah I couldn't do that.

It is probably about time that I posted some pictures again - maybe I'll post some of Berry -- if he turns out to be a lady squirrel I'll have to change that spelling to Berrie. I might have to blow up the photos a bit.

Hey, how about them Broncos??????

Family Follow Up

2011-10-27T08:33:00.000-06:00

Sure it has been a few days since the get together - which was awesome - We spent the bulk of the morning in the kitchen... and we had plenty of room for all. It was nice to visit, cook, have some champagne, see the spouses and the brothers with the local sisters and such. There was plenty for everyone - it was a very relaxed time.. a time for memories, dreams of the future, letting go and living. I think the event brought home the purpose for moving to our new "home".

We had our first big snow yesterday - 6 or 7 inches of the white stuff. The pine and fir trees look awesome -but, I'm ready for it all to go away - there's stuff to do outside yet and more golf to play.

This morning I'm sitting in the study listening to some very relaxing music. This is a warm room and a very soft and relaxing atmosphere - maybe I'll fall asleep for a bit. Carolyn, as usual, is already out and about. I'm deciding whether to go to craft night or not. It was okay last week, but not sure it is for me - just not sure. for a bit, I thought I had the urge to paint again - it was, I think, a brief urge.

Life is about enjoying your moments - doing those things that bring one pleasure, enthusiasm, joy, happiness - I look across the room and notice something awry with the lamp on the piano -- needs fixing and being in the moment of discovery that is just what I'm going to do - some fixing! Later.

Sister's Day (Martinez Clan)

2011-10-16T09:26:00.000-06:00

Carolyn is hosting sister's lunch today. We made it a sister/significant other brunch - complete with Mamosas and Bloody Mary's. We've pushed ourselves the past few days to get our new home more like "our home"... it is fabulous, comfortable, simple -- furnished a lot quicker than I thought it would be - and for a lot less than I thought it would be.

We've had the kitchen counter lowered, the garage insulated, dry walled, and painted. Its awesome. Life is good and the world is treating as very well. We helped Kindle move yesterday - what a gal. Drew must know how fortunate he is to have her.

Megan seems to be doing real well also.... talked to her on the phone a bit - I gotta go do some work at old house.

Life is so full of new moments with so many new experiences.... ain't it great!!!!!!

Busy Bees

2011-09-22T17:14:00.000-06:00

Yesterday - golf, planted 5 trees, finished painting the guest room trim, assembled bed frame, continue to unpack and de-clutter.

Today - Jeff was here to lower the kitchen island - replaced a bad plank on the back of the house - painted same. Helped Jeremiah (well he and Debbie did most of it) move some of Kairi's furniture here temporarily, finished the casement window shelf in the guest room, drilled two holes in the concrete and mounted the closet door glider track.... scheduled the tee time for Monday - that was the most important thing I did.

Lots of very, very, very full moments.

Just Another Day

2011-09-13T06:45:00.000-06:00

I look out my corner kitchen window. One thing I miss about the old house is the view of the sunrise in the morning, always awesome. Our new home doesn't really have an East or West view -- some South and North. So all I really get is a bit of the sky that spills over the two story homes behind us. I do have my trees, the brook, the deck, the patio and so much more. So, it really is "Just Another Day".

But, really, is this that - "Just Another Day". I don't think so. Each day has its special gifts for us - yesterday it was a mediocre round of golf but great friends - painting, watching the Broncos losing yet again - a wonderful spaghetti dinner and glass of Merlot. All days are unique and special - they are given to us to enjoy to the fullest. Sure we can grouse that everything isn't perfect - but, it is if you really think about it - perfect.

Just as each moment we have is perfect in its own way - and each of us is perfect as well. The faults we me see or not see are there, but that doesn't make any difference -because all of this is part of our unique and individual beingness (I coined this word). In being we are really allowed to be ourselves - it doesn't matter what others may see to our face or behind our back- we just need to allow ourselves to be ... ourselves. My encouragement to you is that you enjoy who you are and accept yourself as the gift you are to each and everyone else - including me!

Please, enjoy your moments - I'll be enjoying mine!

What, Another Table

2011-08-31T13:54:00.000-06:00

Unbelievable, but true. One would think we are collecting tables!!! Well, I do think Carolyn found ( at long last) the table she really wants for the kitchen - we are picking it up Friday. The one we are currently using will head for the "sewing room"... It will be a great hobby and sewing table.

Tired today for some odd reason... played golf again-- two man scramble this morning. It was fun. I think I hit some of the best drives I've ever hit, and one fantastic 3 Metal (as Johnny Miller would say). For those that are non-golfers, it is usually a 3 metal these days instead of a 3 wood because the woods are made out of metal so they really aren't woods anymore - doesn't have the same ring though. Tuesday morning I played at Common Grounds - it was the last round of the men's inter-club league for the year. It was nice to play some different courses in the area.

I now need to get the boat cleaned up ... I've been meaning to do it for a few days now, but I've been lazy.. It is definitely time to do some fall fishing.

Well, enough for now. Enjoy your moments - all of them!

Motezuma Iowa

2011-08-25T08:51:00.000-06:00

DRY, DRY, DRY -- did I say dry? It really is dry around here. I've never seen the grass so dormant this time of year in Montezuma. We've been visiting sibs, celebrating Mum's 88th birthday and getting ready to head for home in the morning.

I guess the only thing I've really noticed is the condition of the sidewalks - they are awful.

There are a couple of beautiful new buildings in town - one is a residence, one an office building. Of note is the new Subway across the street from Vannoy's car lot. Can you believe it? A Subway in Montezuma. I wonder how long it will list. The Mexican restaurant that took over Sandi's is already out of business.

Lana and I took her new little boat out this morning. The 8 HP Merc I brought her fired right up - but didn't like trolling speeds at all. I guess she'll have to do a little work on that, but she'll get it running run or no one can.

All in all, it has been a pretty good trip. We got awesome gas mileage coming out - smooth sailing and about 40mpg. If we don't hit headwinds going back West we should do just as well. I'm thinking two days though, instead of one. We'll see. There's lots of moments between now and then and I need to be in the now, for now, you know!

New Home, New Noises, New Discoveries ... Like

2011-08-20T14:12:00.000-06:00

Okay - I bought an electric (being environmentally conscientious. A 50' cord is too short, a 100' cord is too long, so I guess I need to buy a 75' cord and split the difference. I have learned the tricks to managing the cord so's I don't electrocute myself or blow a breaker and, the mower does a great job quietly.

I also learned I should always have a spare or two cord refill for the weed whacker ( in this case used as an edge trimmer -) lesson learned.

Every day is a learning adventure - which switch does what, what outlets are switched, tricky little dimmers - where is the sensor for the front porch light the magically turns on and off by itself -- I have not found that critter yet. I also learned that speed control fan switches aren't necessarily cheap -- also when the box says "will work with any ceiling fan!" -- don't believe it, there is always fine print.

One also discovers that "ponds" which sound like babbling brooks require maintenance - and water - at these temperatures, 2" a day just dissappears. We did find a gizmo (already installed) that allows us to run it from dusk to dawn -- just the right time for a comfortable night's sleep.

We also thought it a bit funny that the first three pieces of furniture we bought were tables -- dining room, patio, and today kitchen - and I discovered garage sales can be a place to find some fantastic bargains.

All-in-all its all good!

Box Day

2011-08-18T19:38:00.000-06:00

Today we got most all of the boxes (all but one) moved into the appropriate room in the house. We also had to get a few necessary items -- hose, broom, dustpan (for garage). I got the boat moved yesterday - cleaned up the 8 horse Mercury for the trip to Iowa.

Our neighbors to the East brought us a lemon cake ... yummm.. nice folks - it is good to know them. I trimmed some trees and bundled the refuse, fixed one of the the thingys (not a word) on the stairs out back -- whatever those things are that go from the floor and steps to what might be called the banister. I'm not technical in things made of wood - though I know there are stringers that hold the steps -- I think. I also installed a wall mount for the flat screen downstairs - now I need to hide all those cables... I have a solution for that.

Looking forward to visiting Mom - somewhat. I do have trepidation, but all in all the trip is a worthwhile cause. Autumn will be house sitting.

We still haven't really picked out any furniture -- we are in the early stages of design!

Life is certainly good! And all our moments are special in some way. Yours should be too!

44th Anniversary

2011-08-14T08:12:00.001-06:00

On August 12th, we celebrated our 44th wedding anniversary. I played golf in the morning - Woodmoor Pines - I guess my mind was on Carolyn, because it certainly wasn't on golf. I played 4 rounds last week, one with the Monday regulars, two with the senior interclub, and one with the Fitz gang. Three rounds this week, Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday.

I got a lot done around the new place yesterday - mostly moving boxes from the garage to the appropriate room in the house. Just getting ready for some future unpacking. Where did it all come from and where in the heck is it all going to go - maybe Goodwill gets some more stuff! That is very likely.

It is a beautiful Sunday morning. I'm sitting on one of the patio chairs that Carolyn and I assembled. They are really nice and comfy, they rock without being rockers. I like that. It is a peaceful and quiet morning - of course I can hear the babbling brook as well and that makes the experience even better.

Today brings with it a lot of new moments and of course will generate some interesting new memories - our precocious Kyrie is with us while Jeremiah is at work. That always makes for an interesting time. Heather, Eric and their gang dropped by yesterday to see the house. Unfortunately I had to leave to go pick Carolyn up. She spent the day with American Jury Research on a mock trial. She said it was very interesting, but had to sign non-disclosure statements so couldn't share any more than that. Ah well......

Oh, the anniversary - it strikes me that I've not shared much about our wonderful 44 years -- well, they speak for themselves and our memories are where they belong - in our hearts! We are looking forward to many more years together and sharing lots more wonderful, joyful, blessed moments!

Monday - Start of Week 2 in Our New Home

2011-08-08T06:39:00.000-06:00

Strange how it already feels like home. There was love here. I can tell - the place has awesome vibes. We, Carolyn and I, assembled patio furniture and a two seat swing yesterday. Yet another dream that has come to fruition.

I'm setting on the patio, enjoying a cup of brew - Kahlua Coffee blend (non-alcoholic - though, a Baily's sounds good right now). It is a beautiful, cool, refreshing morning. The sun is just peaking above the Aspens to the East.

We really don't have any furniture in the house yet. We left most of it behind. Kindle and Drew got good news (how's that for a sudden shift of gears). Their house is under contract. Back to the original -- I still have at least two loads to move from the old home - there are still so many memories attached to that house and those trees.

We both hope and know the kids will stop by often. I think we are now more central and closer to all of them. I need to think about getting a BBQ. That is something we used to do a lot of. Time to enjoy that again. As always there are many moments to enjoy - so, enjoy them. Life is truly that simple!

August 1st, 2011 - Moving - New Beginnings

2011-08-01T04:55:00.000-06:00

Today our move to our no house ( soon to be a home ) begins. The Dearman kids are here to help! We went to a Boston Brunch Bash for Drew and Kindle yesterday. It is new beginnings for a lot of the members of our family. A tough one for Mandy, Jeremiah, and Kairi - but a new start non-the-less.

I'm up early in the morning 4:50AM. But that's just me. I'll start loading the truck for a first run pretty soon, but I've got to have my cup of coffee first thing. Carolyn worked her tail off yesterday. I don't think she realized she had so many clothes and kitchen/pantry items. All of that has to go to the new house today. Tomorrow is the day for friends helping and "the truck". I think one trip will do it. So, we are moving in the cool of the day.

A not on the mosquitoes... they are abundant this year. I can't walk out the front or back door without getting attacked. So bring on the bug spray! Allergies have been bad the last few weeks as well - so bring on the Benadryl! I guess it is time to get started. More later!

Early in the Morning - (Reminds me of a song)

2011-07-25T02:48:00.000-06:00

"About the break of Day! I asked my....." Anyway, it is 2:33 AM and I'm wide awake. We are a few days away from closing on our new home. Sure, I think I'm a bit anxious about it all. It has been a few years since we've had a mortgage payment. We've got the move planned. Yes, we can take our time, but for a couple of days anyway we really have to pay attention to detail. We all know I'm not very good at detail. I've even made lists for this move and I'm definitely not one to make lists. Maybe that's we I'm a having a sleepless night.

It is hot -- the last few days have seen temperatures in the mid to high 90's. We drove by Utah Park yesterday and the sign said 106! My mind is scattered, thoughts going this way and that way, crisscrossing, intersecting, ending up God only knows where - maybe in these few thoughts.

I've asked Wolfgang if he wants to go fishing this coming weekend. I hope to hear from him. I've asked a few people to help us with the move - the kids, the grandkids, some of my golf buddies. I've got one firm yes so far. But it will happen and we will get it done.

I'm also a bit concerned about being a "landlord" for the first time. I know brother Michael has been one for a long time and he seems to handle it very well. I'm working on getting the "legal" stuff done, you know, the paperwork and all such - and wondering what steps I'm willing to take if rent isn't paid on time and all that. It scares me a little bit - just a little.

We've bought a few new things for the new digs (besides the dinnerware) - an electric lawn mower, an elliptical exercise machine, flatware, a dining room table. I was listing rooms for my room measurement project - I counted 19 rooms not including closets and such. That is a lot of rooms - more rooms than our last three domiciles combined! Last night Carolyn and I were talking about "living upstairs", where to put televisions, what bedrooms to make spare bedrooms and which to make "man cave" and/or "woman cave", meditation and yoga room, weight room (exercise equipment) and such.

We will probably have some "dual purpose" rooms. We've even talked about having a Murphy Bed in one of the spare rooms to help serve that "dual purpose" for when Carolyn has all the out-of-town sisters and brothers over for a week or weekend visit. That will be nice to be able to do!

On a side note - I've lost 55lbs since November 29 of 2010. I met my goal and I'm holding pretty steady at 162 to 165lbs. I feel great. I've gotten off Metformin (for diabetes). My blood sugar (the doc calls it BS) is great and my total cholesterol is below 200 - the good stuff is over 55! I'll have to post a before and after picture one of these days - just to brag a bit more. (I hear my sisters are doing really great and getting in shape too! Life is good.)

We are planning our trip to Germany next year. We've corresponded a bit with Uwe and his family. I think, once we get moved, we'll be able to really get the trip planned out. In the meantime there are many present moments to live and to enjoy to the fullest! Enjoy yours! We'll certainly enjoy ours!

New Home - New Dishes

2011-07-14T16:21:00.000-06:00

So, today we went out and bought the first "new item" for our "new home" .... dishes. Yup, that is right, new dishes. Who'd a thunk dishes were so darned expensive. But, we got one heck of a deal. Three days ago the dishes were selling for 15.99 each, the cups 11.99 each, the bowls... well you get the idea!

Serendipity - today we decided to go make sure it is what Carolyn really wanted. I told her I would be four dishes -- generous eh. Well, we got to the store and they were on sale - like big time! Unbelievable 3.99 ea! She got a service for 12 - well, pretty much - we figured we only needed 4 coffee mugs - we had to go to two different Kohl's venues to get all 12 of each - and, we lucked out and the second store even had the salad plates. Wahoo!!! Carolyn's happy! And, when Carolyn is happy, I'm happy too - very!!!!

Ours are Round though, not square - awesome!!!!!

Birthday Reflections

2011-07-10T06:40:00.000-06:00

The past year has been full of remarkable moments - so I guess I'll make a few remarks.

Last year at this date I weighed 215 lbs. This year I weigh 163.6 lbs - goal met
My golf handicap was in the 20's - maybe higher. My handicap is now at 16.7 - getting closer to my goal
Last year at this time we had no intention of ever moving - on June 29th of this year, we bought a new house. We close on July 28th - a new adventure begins
Last year at this time we had no pets living here - now our grand daughter is living here with her two Westies. Buddha is still Buddha!!!!
Last year I was in hot water with some of the family - my bad - I think we have started the path to healing those relationships
Last year, when in the shower and I looked down, I couldn't see my feet - this year I look down and I see everything --- (I know, TMI - but its important to me!)
Last year I was on diabetic medication. A few days ago, my doctor told me I didn't need to take it any more. Wahoo...... Of course, I still have to check to make sure my Blood Sugar is in check.
Last year my cholesterol was over 200 and my HDL was less than 40. This year my cholesterol is under 195 and my HDL is over 60 -- that's great!
Last year I was impatient...... I still am!

I wonder what wonderful things this year will bring! I'll let it be a surprise!

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2011-07-09T16:53:00.000-06:00

Making the decision to buy a new home was easy for me- and, I think, makes sense to Carolyn. Leaving the old home is not quite as easy. There is a lot of history here. Raising children, the joys, the sorrows, the good times, and the not so good times - all come back as we move from room to room, packing some things and discarding others.

Kindle slept here, Heather there, Jeremiah here and there, Chad here, and there. The devil on the door, the stereo equipment and the waterbed. Girl friends, boy friends, first dates, first days at school and first days coming home from school. The arguments over homework... the parties in the back yard and in the house. The pets - Sheba, the cats - Gizmo and many others.... the Christmases, the thanksgivings... Easter egg hunts birthday parties and so very much more.

The struggles and the joys - always the love shared and a willingness to share our home with the kids married or not married bringing and even having their kids here. The joy when they each found first loves and their second. The heart breaking break ups of a first serious relationship.... the teenager coming of age... the pre-schooler going off to school.

Playing their first instruments! Flutes, trumpets, drums.. cheerleaders, poets, singers, and lovers.... growing up and all the love, joy, happiness, laughter, pain, anguish - fighting - what ever it took to try and hold things together....

The washer and dryer seemingly running without ever stopping! New cars, used cars, lots of cars, broken cars... bicycles, lawn mowers...

The pumpkin patch -

the most beautiful tree in town... The trees that blew over in the wind! I'll miss the trees - but I'll love other trees.... maybe not as much as the big one in the front yard.

The foreign exchange students, the camping trips, the family nights - the games - the first Atari, the Odessy, all the tennis shoes....

I shed a few tears this morning -- Carolyn sheds them more often. Its hard to leave 31 years of history - but, in the end I'm looking forward to a new beginning - leaving the old moments behind - giving them grace - and welcoming the new moments and adventure to come -- and all the family get togethers around the corner... space to celebrate...

Somehow we didn't need space -- everything was always full of love, laughter, tears -- raised voices -- whispers - moments... many, many, many wonderful moments past and yet to come!

Packing for a Move

2011-07-07T09:18:00.000-06:00

I never knew I would need so darn many boxes. But, it is all "fun" - and somewhat emotional - especially after having raised a family and hosted so many folks over the past 30 years. I am thankful that we don't have as many books as we used to have - but, there is still so much stuff!!!

I played golf yesterday and am catching up on a lot of "office type" stuff right now. Oh yah, I got the transponder mount on the boat fixed too. Now to go and do some fishing. I thought I might do it today but we are going to go look at some furniture and to a book store. I'm going to (as is Carolyn) explore interior decorating a bit.

We are still discussing what to do with what rooms and the new digs. I can't call it home yet - because this is home. Missing the grandkids and kids for some reason - much more than usual today. Carolyn and I have been so very blessed.

Speaking of golf - I did mention that earlier - my drives have gone a bit awry again. Oh well, if it isn't one thing, its another. I have, though, improved my handicap. It is now at 16.7 - not bad, but, a way to go to hit my goal. I've set that at 13 for this year. It is doable. I have a lesson with Dan on Saturday - working on the short game!

Moments - they are to be lived to the fullest. I hope that you are living yours well! and happily!

Golf Balls, Diets, and New Homes

2011-06-25T06:57:00.001-06:00

Golf balls, diets, and new homes - not necessarily in that order. I think I noted to you that Kindle and Drew gave me a dozen "refurbished" Pro V1 golf balls for Father's Day. What a thoughtful gift. Well, Drew and I played golf at Meadow Hills yesterday morning. What a beautiful morning. We shared a lot, hunted for balls a lot, and swung the clubs a bit as well. The course was in great shape. I so did not want to lose one of those Pro V1s. I so did -- 2 in the water, and 3 in the 2nd cut. You'd think you could find a ball in the second cut. This grass was lush and thick and the balls just settled down. If you didn't walk right over it, you couldn't see it. I was disappointed that I lost almost half of those balls - and, I really liked em! Yet another great reason to keep it in the fairway! It was a great morning. We finished our round o golf and headed off to show Drew our new home.

Yes, we bought a new home!!! We closed the deal late Thursday night. I couldn't help but drive by the place before the golf. It is ( the house) within about 5 minutes of Meadow Hills, Quincy Reservoir, lots of shopping and libraries. Anyway, after the round Drew and drove out to take a look - he was lucky enough to be one of the first of our family to see it. Albeit he was able to see only the outside. I did take a picture of it, so will add later in this post. One thing of note -- we were originally going to downsize-- well we significantly up sized. Why, well because Carolyn has really always wanted to be able to have more family over for events, Christmases, parties, whatever. Now she and I (especially she) will be able to do that. The furniture may be sparse for a few years, but the welcome mat will always be out. The hou se has a really huge kitchen - which Carolyn really wanted, a three car garage - which Lanny (me) really wanted (so I could have my boat inside) - and is in wonderful condition. Along with that there are 6 bedrooms - we'll keep the master suite and 2 spare, 3 full bathrooms, living room, dining room, great room family room, exercise room, patio, and a Koi pond (out back) - plus more we probably have not yet discovered. Can you tell I'm excited!

Last but not least - I've reached my weight loss goal! 165lbs. It took 7 months! I not start the "Consolidation" phase of my diet. This will maintain the weight loss, add some new foods, and get my body used to this weight so that it doesn't try to store up and get back some of those lost pounds (called rebound). After 65 days I can then go on to phase four. During the 1st half of this period I get 1 celebration meal a week (more to come) and still have one day that is only protein only. That day will be Thursdays.

All in all this has been a great week. I look good (my opinion only), feel good, and am enjoying each and every one of my moments more fully than I have in years. Even the lawn mowing - that will need to be done this morning.!!! Have a great day!

Father's Day 2011

2011-06-20T14:30:00.000-06:00

It was good. Jeremiah and Mandy stopped by at coffee - Kairi was with them. Drew and Kindle came to the house for a visit and some information and to borrow a bike for bike to work day. That was great too. Heather called from the Rockies ball game and Chad called after he got his new roll about Husky tool box put together.

It was a wonderful family filled day.

Today it rained -well, it rained all night and most of the day. Sand Creek and the ditch North of us are running full - not quite over the banks and Sand Creek - but close. I'll bet the ponds are full.

Dick called and said golf was postponed until Tuesday. I'm excited to play. Life is good!

Myrtle Beach - Day 7 - Travel Day

2011-06-16T05:08:00.001-06:00

We played our last round of golf for the trip yesterday. Once again I was the proud winner ( well, one of em) of a banana split. That has not happened in years - I don't recall winning once in 20 years, but Mil thinks he recalls I did once in the early days when Ray and Frank were still with us - I miss those guys.

We did not take a single photo this year. So no picture memories and my cheap cell doesn't have a camera. I hope Gordon posts the one of Mil with his very special golf cap. It was hilarious!

I won't get home until late this evening. Lots to do today to help the moments pass usefully. Enjoy yours - maybe more to come, then again, maybe not!

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Post Post - I found my camera - I hid it well in my computer back pack... so, I did get one photo or three!

Myrtle Beach - Day 6

2011-06-15T04:21:00.001-06:00

Okay - keep my cool, be the ball, all that wonderful sounding stuff. Today is the traditional Ice Cream Banana Split match. So, all I have to do is play to my points. I've not won this thing in 20 years - one year Tanner did give me a mercy split. Maybe it is a tradition that I continue to lose?

We are playing the Davis Love course at Barefoot Landing. It is a wonderful venue for this much ballyhooed event. The event doesn't draw the press coverage it should - not at all like the US Open that's this week. I do miss Tiger in the golf tournaments. I hope he gets over all this "stuff" and his injuries and gets back to being the great golfer he was. He made mistakes - yes - but I would still like to see if he can break some more records.

As for me - Thursday (tomorrow) will be a travel day and it will be good to get back home. Report on the "event" later.
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So - this year I won a Banana Split. It was awesome - Rum Raisin, Peach, Pistachio Almond - toppings: Caramel, Hot Fudge, Chocolate Syrup - Whipped Cream of course - I didn't get the Marichino for some reason. I had not had a bowl of ice cream for about 12 months - it was soooooo good, especially since Bob had to pay for it.

Love course at Barefoot was fantastic. It was in excellent shape except for maybe some of the sand traps. But, I wasn't in too many of them so didn't have to deal with that.

This afternoon its washing clothes and packing for home. Lots of moments left to enjoy though! Enjoy your moments they are precious!

Myrtle Beach - Day 5

2011-06-14T04:11:00.001-06:00

Already! This has been a very enjoyable golf trip. We play two great courses today - Kings North and Moorland. Both of these courses are very near home base. No long road trips today.

I must say that I have NOT golfed consistently on this outing. But, the good news, I've made a lot more really good shots. I think when I come down here to play a lot of golf it is more to enjoy the company and the many varied venues and adventure of it. Then when I get back home to some more serious golf - I've got to work to get my groove again. There's also the fact that the ball really does fly further in Denver than it does down here - so that means getting used to club accuracy again. What an adventure - I love this game.

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Results were not what was expected. The "Good, The Bad, and The Ugly". I guess that's golf for me. I talked with Carolyn - things seem to be going okay back home.
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We ate dinner at Key West - great filet and some lobster tails.

Tomorrow is Ice Cream tournament day! Could this be the year?

Myrtle Beach - Day 4

2011-06-13T03:41:00.001-06:00

Today the venue is "River Club". That implies more water. Believe it or not we are playing heads up for the "Gator" and I'm not in the lead this year. That makes 3 years in a row where I've not taken home that dubious trophy. (Knock on wood - the week isn't over yet.)

Afternoon off - no golf - that's a good thing today. We are all tired. The "River Club" was a challenge, but a fair one. Lots of water and lots of sand - not tricked up. The course was not in great shape - but it wasn't horrible either. I had two water balls today - someone else had more - whew.

I had salmon for lunch so I'll be skipping dinner this evening. I usually skip one or two a year - I'm sure you find that interesting. Okay, maybe you don't.

The biggest surprise of the day for me -- I went to buy some new Bermuda's -- 34" waist fit beautifully - that's 10" down since November 29, 2010. AWESOME!

Live and love your moments - they are the only ones you have!

Myrtle Beach - Day 3

2011-06-12T03:22:00.001-06:00

3:40AM - Mountain Time - but, I'm on the East Coast drinking a cup of coffee and started the daily travelogue blog (another rhyme). Today it is Caledonia and True Blue - practically across the street from each other and very near to Heritage Plantation. We are off to an early start because it is quite a bit further South than we are staying. That means a really quick breakfast this morning and wheels up by 6:15. Our trip navigator and tournament director (same guy - says its his last year doing the planning) has his timing spot on. I'm not sure the rest of us want to take over a job that someone has been doing so great at for the past 18 or 19 years.

It looks to be another full day of fantastic moments to enjoy - and maybe a snooze on the ride down south!

Caledonia- well going there helped me spell it right. My drives were great today. I had a wonderful score at Caledonia. This venue is one of the most beautiful and well maintained golf courses here. It has moved to the top of my list for this year.

We then played True Blue. It was in excellent shape - the greens were slick as glass. I didn't get many "good bounces" and didn't score well. Frankly I was worn out when the day was over. On the way back to the Condo we were disappointed to see that the Mayor's House restaurant was closed. However, we spotted a place (well Bob did) called Hansen House. We decided it was worth trying. It was very good - a keeper and we'll add it to the list of favorite MB eateries.

It is hard to believe we have only 4 rounds of golf left to play and 3 days left to stay. The trip seems shorter this year, but that is okay - I'm ready to get home to Carolyn. I'll have been gone almost 3 weeks out of the last 4.

Lots to do and lots of wonderful new moments to enjoy.

Myrtle Beach - Day 2

2011-06-11T03:51:00.001-06:00

Up early today. Meditation - on the condo couch. Beautiful morning. We play Heather Glen in North Carolina this morning. We'll likely play 27 holes. Gordon and I are partners this morning. I'm going to play a lot better than I did yesterday. No more "blue" tees. Our second shots yesterday were all over 200 yards. That makes for some tough golf.

Kona blend coffee - awesome. Time for breakfast!

Well it was a good day on the golf course -- of course -- what day isn't, when you are on the golf course. We did play 27 holes, the last 9 was just for fun... They first 18 I made up some of the ground I lost on the first 36 holes we played. Heather Glen is a beautiful golf course with three very distinct 9 hole venues. These courses were in the best condition of the three we've played so far on this trip. The greens held nicely - but, so did the fairways. They've been watering the heck out of the course so there wasn't any role at all.

When we played the final 9 holes for practice, I really worked on my drives. It was definitely worth the time. Tomorrow we play Caldonia and True Blue - these are two awesome golf courses in near Litchfield Plantations and Pauly's Island in South Carolina - (Pawley's Island maybe).

Mil is my partner in the morning and Bob in the afternoon. We'll be eating dinner at the Mayor's House in the evening. It was a great find last year - great food, friendly folk, and reasonable prices.

Live your moments well!

Myrtle Beach - Day 1

2011-06-10T03:54:00.001-06:00

Well, technically, it is morning one, day 2. We ate at Sea Captain's House last night. Wonderful steamed veggies with a nice broiled flounder fillet.

Its 3:30AM Denver time - but 5:30 here on the Eastern coast. Today we play Pearl East and one of our old time favorites Oyster Bay.

We just got back from Canada, my grandson Wolfgang and I. We had a wonderful fishing trip. I'm hoping that Chad can come next year. I'll be asking Eric and Trenton as well this time around. That of course, means I'll need a bigger boat and a less gas guzzling vehicle to pull it with. Aw shucks.

Off to breakfast in a couple of minutes... then hitting the links at 07:30 -- a beautiful course with some great water holes! My favorite!
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Results not great. It was a very nice day - to bad my golf was not equal to the quality of the day. I did hit some fine golf shots, but I also dug a lot of dirt today-- much more than usual. Down here at see level I'm needing to hit 2 clubs longer - like a 5 instead of a 7 iron, a 9 instead of gap wedge. I can't hit a straight ball with the driver to save my -- well you know.

We saw a few gators, a young eagle, a few heron's and some leaping mullets. (those are a weird fish that think they can fly - see them in many of the golf course ponds.

I did take a very long walk today - besides all of the walking on the golf course. I didn't find anything on the menu at the Sunshine Cafe - so took a long walk while the other guys ate. I made it a lot further down the road than I thought I would.

Well, tomorrow is another day - and another golf course - Heather Glenn - back to South Carolina we go. It, however, is only a 35 minute drive and a very early breakfast!

Be in the moment - better yet - be "the ball"...

Annual Migrations

2011-05-10T12:59:00.000-06:00

1st North to Canada, then south to Myrtle Beach. It is indeed an annual migration. I'm already more prepared than ever before. I've got one box of dried goods that include snacks that would well - come close to matching Pat's annual stash - at least in quantity, if not quality. Another box is almost full. One thing to do yet is get the boat on the lake and run the Merc up - maybe practice my walleye techniques.

As for Myrtle, well, I'm getting my game finally tuned. I've got new clubs, a new attitude, and a lower handicap index. I'm getting in a lot more golf. I've also found a new ball that I really like -- the Top Flight (yes, I said Top Flight) Gamer. It is a great ball and only 1.50 / ball instead of the 4.50 / ball a Pro V1 would set me back. I gotta watch those pennies or quarters.

So, yes, I'm very excited to enjoy some fabulous new moments.

Congrats to a graduate - Shawna Brown!!!!!! The pizza party was great.

Not Much to Say

2011-05-03T18:43:00.000-06:00

Really. I don't even know why I'm posting this evening. Well -- I have set a couple of new goals. I've reached my next weight loss goal of 179.5 - I actually hit 178.5 this morning. So, time to set a new goal. I'm going to set my goal for 174. That will take me about 5 weeks. With two trips coming up though, it might be pretty difficult to accomplish in that time. But, I'm committed so it WILL happen.

A second goal this golf season is to get my handicap down 5 to 6 more strokes. Right now, my GHIN is 18.5. That is the lowest that it has ever been. So I'm shooting for a 13 handicap. I'm taking some lessons this summer, playing more golf, and working on my game -- .

I've got a lot accomplished of late... and lots more to accomplish. Live your moments to the fullest! Congratulations to all of the graduates, high school, community college, college and all other graduates.

The Easter Bunnies History Lesson

2011-04-24T08:46:00.000-06:00

Kairi is one of our grandchildren. She wrote a neat letter to the Easter Bunny. She was very nice and to the point -- "I love you Easter Bunny" and other great stuff. But, she also added -- did you know "Jesus was Crucified?" Well, he was -- and that's "your history lesson".

I didn't get the words quite right, but it was the sentiment and the lesson that's important.

Just got back from my trip to Iowa. I'll probably not go back as often as I had planned. Mom and I had a bit of a row (and I did look it up - pronounced rou ). The English language really is a mystery. Anyway - it was over the use of her car - I understand, but I don't. And, well, if you don't have transportation of your own, it just isn't the same. Even though Mike and Vicki offered - it just didn't feel right. We did go gambling and went out to lunch together. I saw everyone but Patti - and I do feel bad about that. There really isn't an excuse. So, sorry Patti.

I will be driving back through Iowa on my way to Canada - I'll make it a point to see that part of the family before hitting the road with Lana and her clan.

Life is good (cold right now) but good! Enjoy each and everyone of your moments -- they are truly precious.

An Iowa Trip

2011-04-16T11:48:00.001-06:00

It is good to see family from time to time. It is a long trip, not inexpensive, but doesn't really "break the bank". When one is not around one's family, one does not "experience" family the same. It perhaps makes things more interesting, but in some ways, it makes things very "unfamiliar". Unfamiliar in the sense that families, I believe, have their own unique cultures. These are differences in the way family members interact and relate to one another - habits, nuances, all of that.

I know the same thing applies to the way that I am perceived when I visit there. My brother noticed I had lost weight. My mom said I had a ways to go -- but was very complimentary of sibling that had lost weight. Oh well - the wound was shallow and not discouraging.

When I do come back I want- to offer help where I can but that too is not always wanted, so that is okay, I'll just know not to offer anymore.

I had originally budgeted to come back more often. Perhaps I should just reallocate that budget. I'm mentally debating the issue right now. I'm in a moment where my moments are a bit confusing. It is understandable - I'm not familiar, maybe, because I've been away for so many years - and that's okay. It all makes sense, somehow.

I'm very much looking forward to Canada! Very, very, very much!

Spring - Almost Feeling It

2011-04-05T11:56:00.000-06:00

Well for sure because the pickup needed major repairs - the golf game is suffering a bit - and I'm nostalgic about home. I'm also hungry. I guess I should have something to eat.

I was on a golf course again yesterday - notice I didn't say I played golf yesterday. I was, well, to say the least, terrible. But, lunch after was good.

It has been a busy week so far, and it is only Tuesday. Tomorrow begins another season of golf (men's association) at Fitz. I'm looking forward to seeing Gerry, Chuck, Tom, and others again. I'm also looking forward to playing better golf. I can't swing a driver lately - not to save my life. That old banana ball is haunting me again. I completed a survey the other day for the City of Aurora - got a free bucket of balls. I guess I should take advantage and go hit some.

I"m also needing to get the boat ready. Not much to do there but get the new boat license on the boat - check the trailer out, get it licensed, charge the battery, take it out on the water and check the Merc out. Well I'm at it, I may as well get the fishing license and dip a few lures in the water to see if I can catch some spring walleye. I still have not figured Cheery Creek Reservoir out. I don't catch many fish there - maybe two all of last year - a crappie and I'm not sure what the other one was - or, if I even caught another one. It all makes me yearn all the much more for Canada.

I'll be visiting family in a week. Lana promised a day (or 2) on the lake - well she didn't promise 2, but maybe I can talk her into it.

Well, that is about it for now - enjoy your moments, each and every one of them.

Retired, but Planning for the Future

2011-03-27T09:15:00.000-06:00

We are "Envisioning" our next 40 years together. Believe it or not, after 43 years of marriage it is amazing how much we can still learn from and about each other. This kind of a fun process. Of course we both disagree on what to consider leaving in an estate -- I'm spending it all - Carolyn wants to leave a bunch - the kids [and grandkids] best start getting me on her side! (or not) I want to spend my last penny on my last day.... for a very expensive scotch maybe.

It is kind of fun dreaming like this again. We've never taken a cruise. We'd both like to do that. We want to go to Germany and visit Uwe and his family. Until we do that kind of travel I really won't know how much I or we enjoy it.

Carolyn wants a lot of home improvements including an add on. I want a garage-- I'm tired of cleaning winter snow off the car and truck. I want a new boat - bigger, faster, better. Carolyn wants to go back to school and get a teacher's certificate - good for her.

More trips back to Iowa are important to me - more trips to out of town siblings is important to Carolyn as well - and more venues to go to. Probably she wants to go to more UFO conferences. I would like to take more weekend getaways with her -- she wants that with me as well.

Retirement is good and it is a very busy time!

Whatever

2011-03-24T10:40:00.000-06:00

Writing because I felt the urge. Not sure exactly why. I've made hotel reservations for the trip to Canada. I'll be coming home a different way. I'm already excited about the trip this year -- more than usual - perhaps I'll catch the "big one"!!! Wouldn't that be exciting.

Spring is close. Gotta start the yard work. I seem to be using almost any excuse to put it off. Right now the excuse is that I'm waiting for two phone calls. Tomorrow it will be something els. I truly am a procrastinator. Don't take me wrong, sometimes procrastination is good.

I got some new arrows for my bow. Looking forward to shooting this evening. Carolyn has tap dance so we go our separate ways.

I guess that is it for the moment - something tells me I'll be back later though.

I Guess It is --- What I Do!

2011-03-19T06:17:00.000-06:00

I'm sure the last post didn't make much sense. It was a remark that was made to me that set me off like a firecracker. (Figure it out). Anyway, a couple of days later I've come to realize that the remark was absolutely on spot! So it is time for another life path alteration - albeit a small one. Predictability isn't always a bad thing - but it surely isn't always a good thing either. If you can read between the clouded lines of prose, you can figure out what I speak of. One always has to leave something to the imagination of the reader - even if the reader is myself.

This blogging is a sort of "public" journaling - it is life giving to me and maybe something said will trigger in someone who may happen to come across it and read it. Then again, maybe not. I've not downloaded this stuff to my "book" for sometime - I should do so (Yes, that's what I do). Procrastination or exhilaration. I'm so looking forward to Myrtle Beach and Canada. I was daydreaming yesterday about travel, and especially about the two trips I take every year. I'm retired - who says they have to last just seven or nine days - why can't they last a month - leisure - in the moment trips that have no deadlines - just dream and meditation time. Fishing is very meditative. Maybe that is what I love about it. The "bite" always brings you into the moment - sort of like a great golf shot!

Speaking of golf, league will start again on April 30th. It is time to get my game honed and to set a new goal for reducing my handicap (19.3 right now). I'm not consistent with the driver, I still take too many penalty strokes (9 last round - yes, I said 9). That is inexcusable. Monday at Fitzsimons with the guys then lunch at Mama Alvinos.

Today we are going to go see "Paul" with Larry and Susan. Carolyn is looking forward to this one. I'll spill the beans on my thoughts when I review the picture - maybe tomorrow - because "That's what I do!"

Love your life and your moments, live them to the very fullest - enjoy those around you and let them enjoy you - you are a gift! ( Believe it!)

Yes, That's What you Do

2011-03-17T08:28:00.000-06:00

Hm. What a comment!

Not Just Another Day

2011-03-11T09:11:00.000-07:00

It is very unusual that I have a day as busy as Carolyn's. But, yesterday I did.

18 holes of golf at Saddleback -- 96, not a great score, but great weather. I took 9 penalty strokes, worst in a long long time). 3 OB's off the tee, and 6, count em, 6 lost balls - in hazards. Now, that is just horrible. Think what I could score if I just kept the ball in play.
Archery - so I drive back to Denver to shoot a make up score for Thursday night league. My new bowstring was ready. what a difference the correct brace height makes. I shot the best groups that i've shot this year and scored a 199 (still not as good as Carolyn). that is a huge improvement from my previous high of 117.
Poker Night - so then a drive back up North to Windsor to play poker. Well, I had a great time and lost a buck - it was fun to play again.

On second thought I still was not as busy as Carolyn - let's see she had:

Exercise class
Yoga
Tai Chi
Making cupcakes or something with the granddaughter
Picking up Kairi
Tap Dance Class

Oh well - I think we both had a lot of fun yesterday and a lot of fabulous moments!

On Playing Cards

2011-03-04T08:42:00.000-07:00

I really do like to play cards. I guess that is just me. When I was growing up there were always card games, bridge clubs, poker, you name it. Mom and Dad and most of the kids really enjoyed playing cards. I'm talking the standard deck stuff, not UNO or Old Maid and those "special decks". I think maybe playing cards is something you really love, or you really hate. I'm writing about this because, well, just to get it off my chest.

It really is nice if your partner likes to play cards too... if not, then one kinda has to find a venue where having a partner isn't really necessary. Poker, cribbage and a few other games, maybe even a drop in bridge game. I played a lot of bridge in college - its a game I really like. Its tough to find drop-in bridge clubs. It could be that i'm not looking hard enough.

I've been invited to play poker next week. I'm looking forward to it. I enjoy playing 11 point "Pitch" on Wednesdays -- so , I guess I'm covered. Thanks for listening.

Moods and Other Thoughts

2011-02-24T09:58:00.000-07:00

I think I went to sleep in a foul mood - and therefore, I woke up in a foul mood. Several hours have passed. I realize now that I gave up control of my feelings to the desk clerk at the Radisson. One should not ( I should not) allow that to happen -- it is senseless, after all I am responsible for my feelings and reactions to others and their discourtesies - who knows she may have been having a bad day (not that she had the right to make mine bad too, but). Oh well, you can see where I'm headed with this. A brisk walk with Carolyn this morning, finding a Starbucks within a reasonable distance of the hotel - has brought things into perspective. I'm fine again and all is well with the world.

I'm not sure how far Tucson is from Scottsdale. I'll have to look that one up. Jay Hopkins of the Error Prevention Institute lives somewhere in the area. It would be nice to visit with him again and see just how he is doing. The name and the cause bring back other names like Larry and Barbara and others who fought the good fight of Error Prevention.

It is beautiful here - it is a very "rustic" view -- lots of cacti and other "strange" vegetation. I say strange just because I don't recognize some of the flora and fauna.

It seems strange that I'm staying at a casino and I have not yet pulled the handle on a slot machine. I may not on this trip - then again. (Crashed - thank goodness of auto-save)

I'm surprised that some of the folks that come to mind above do not have Facebook pages - I don't know quite why I'm surprised, but I am.

I'm smiling, I'm back in the moment and once again I've taken back ownership of my feelings and emotions! That is a good thing! Take yours back too (if you've given them up to someone or something else!)

Trip Coming Up

2011-02-20T08:13:00.000-07:00

Tuesday morning we'll head for Scottsdale. Carolyn is attending a conference. I'm going to do something - like sit at the pool and watch the swimmers swim and sunbathers sun bathe. There are 200 some golf courses near there too. I might take my clubs, I might not. That is the good thing about being retired. You can pretty much play things by ear. I was always good at being on a schedule and keeping it - but I love not having one at all.

We shot our Archery league make up rounds yesterday. Carolyn shot a 193 to my 111. It'll be awhile before i even come close to being competition to her -- but that is a goal for me and I'm sticking to it for now.

The weather has been very cold in the morning but warms up nicely during the day. Trenton and I have been chatting in the evening. He is a cool kid. All the grandkids are pretty cool. I've asked Eric to come to Canada with me - I'm hoping (against all odds) that he will. Carolyn would like for me to have company. I will make the trip even if I do go it alone. I've already indicated that I will take the long route through Iowa and caravan with the Montezuma and Minnesota contingents.

Mil has planned some great golf courses for the Myrtle Beach trip this year. My score is already improving. I shot an 85 on Thursday - in strong winds. This is the year I get my handicap down to a 13 or better. That's 6 strokes - I think I can do it. I'm committed to more practice.

Enjoy your moments. I know that I am enjoying mine!

Saturday - Carolyn's Birthday

2011-02-07T17:35:00.000-07:00

She wanted to go out to breakfast. We did. We tried a restaurant that was recommended by Susan and Larry - Newbarry's -- it was an excellent breakfast. We spoke with the owner afterwards - he remembered Larry and his mom coming in for breakfast (many years ago).

Jeremiah and Mandy dropped in later that evening. Jeremiah proposed to Mandy after taking her to see "Midsummer Night's Dream" then off to the Brown Palace. Chad took pictures. We can't wait to see the photos. Both Mandy and Jeremiah seemed very happy. He even brought Carolyn flowers to help her celebrate her birthday. Carolyn was surprised and happily so.

Sunday we drove around looking at Denver area archery ranges. There were two we really liked. We are going to go shooting on Tuesday. We are both looking forward to that. Have a great day and week - be in the moment whenever you possibly can.

"like OMG, like"

2011-02-03T12:23:00.000-07:00

It is absolutely unbelievable. I know that isn't a good sentence because you have no idea what "it" is. Well, "it" is the state of the English American language. I will get to the point in a little bit. We've had several days of very cold temperatures. Today was another one. Carolyn and I went to a Starbucks for coffee and tea. It appears to be a place where "off duty" teachers hang out.

Carolyn and I were sitting close enough to overhear a lot of their conversation. I swear that every 4th or 5th word out of their mouths was "like" or "like OMG". Now I wonder if our grandkids get that nasty habit from the teachers, or, the very educated teachers get the "like" habit from them. Like, what is the truth, like! Frankly, I like, find it very, like, irritating. If they could only hear themselves or see it all in writing -- they could nip that habit in the bud. But, like, I seriously doubt it. It wasn't just one of the teachers speaking that way, it was all of them - young and a little older alike, like. Do they (the teachers) talk that way in the classroom? Maybe it is time for a grandparent classroom audit.

Are principals and superintendents of our aware of this problem. Apparently not, or I should think they would, like, do something about it. I'm just saying!

February 2011 Begins

2011-02-01T07:07:00.000-07:00

I'm basically a very happy guy. Life is good. I've dropped below the 200lb mark. This morning, 197. Now that's good. I've come a long way in a couple of months. Carolyn and I have become Dr. Oz fans. We pick up a lot of great hints about health. The latest is 10 minutes of stretching for thing this morning. I could only handle 4. That means I've got a long way to go yet. My next goal is 194lbs. I keep changing my ultimate goal - but somewhere between 155 and 165 - it is definitely attainable.

With the weather the way it is, I don't think we'll be playing golf this week - about 11 degrees outside. this follows our second snow of the year - we didn't get much, but I'll have to shovel the walks.

We got our Myrtle Beach golf schedule - it looks to be a great time. We'll be playing 9 great courses this year. But, Canada comes first. I'll likely be going alone this year. Carolyn isn't comfortable with that, so I may make the journey to Iowa first so I can caravan with the rest of the travelers. I'm still working on a couple of possibilities for company. Carolyn may even go, but I don't think she really wants to this year.

Another Milestone

2011-01-26T07:54:00.000-07:00

Awesome. I've reached another milestone -- 199lbs. I'm officially setting my next goal at 194 as of this morning. I even got into a pair of 38 (down from 44) waist slacks yesterday. Now that is a big change. 6" off the waist. That means I'm dumping some of that "belly fat" that Dr. Oz says is so bad for you.

We played golf yesterday - despite the chill in the air. We teed off at 22 degrees above zero. When we finished (55/41) it was all the way up to 44 - a veritable heat wave.

Today is pitch day. I always look forward to playing cards. I love to play cards. I guess it is one of those things that we kids really picked up and enjoy. Mom and dad were playing cards all the time.. Dad for all of his life. I don't think mom plays much anymore. I need to call her - to say hi, love yah.

Computing and Such Things

2011-01-21T16:41:00.000-07:00

Well, we finally got the PS3, Harmony One remote, and "wirelessized" the old computer -- they are almost all set up. I think i'm about 92% there. I also got my laptop completely backed up yesterday -- I had to, the darn thing is acting kinda strange. I believe it is overheating from time to time.

I tried using my older WD but the darn thing wouldn't work with Windows 7 - and no driver updates available. So, I'll have to -- I don't know. Something.

I also took a look see at a Vaio -- I couldn't get it running but do know that if they can find the original disks I can probably getting it working enough to save the rest of their stuff. I love doing this kind of thing -- like the old days of tracking down a problem and fixing it - fixing it right.

All in all, this has been a really good week - I'm already looking forward to spending the day with Trenton tomorrow.

I do have to get to work on photos. Spring cleaning is going great! We've made some wonderful discoveries as we go through some of the stuff!

January Flying By

2011-01-13T07:54:00.000-07:00

Hm. January 2011 is fast fading ( away is assumed, but stated here for those who don't assume)! Another thing that is fading is my excess body fat -- I'm now at 201.5 - that is 1.5 lbs from my next interim goal of 199. I think it is awesome. I look better, feel better and much less of me does help with all of that.

There is still snow on the ground from the last snow storm. I guess there won't be any golf next week either.

I'm so looking forward to Canada this year again. I hope brother Mike comes along. I'm certainly trying to encourage him. I enjoyed our time together last year - it was nice to have both a sister and a brother there. fishing makes for some very enjoyable (and sometimes interesting) times together.

Carolyn and I have a very busy schedule today-- it will be full of wonderful moments to remember and to enjoy!

New Year's Day 2011

2011-01-01T13:51:00.000-07:00

We made it. Another day, another year, and a gazillion more moments. I'm not one of the folks who makes New Year's resolutions - if you don't make em, there is no stress in keeping them. Goals -- well, that is something a bit different. Goals can be realistic, stretch or whatever you want them to be and about whatever you want them to be. They can be as simple as "enjoy your moments" or as difficult as "improve your golf handicap by 5 - (19.2 to 14.2)". Well, I have not set any goals yet either - maybe the two I just mentioned.

I should go look at last year's January 1 blog and see what I said.

Headed for Kindle and Drew's this evening for spaghetti and cards, should be fun.

I need to get serious about something this year - nah!

Another Year Coming to an End

2010-12-30T10:56:00.000-07:00

Larry hosted a surprise birthday party for my sister-in-law Susan last night. I truly believe she was absolutely surprised. Good work Larry.

We did play golf this week. Next week is not looking so good. We have played the final round of 2010 unless tomorrow is freaky warm for this time of year.

We are getting our first Aurora snowfall of the season. The ground is not white yet, but it soon will be. The snow is coming down like it really means business.

We got a PlayStation for Christmas. I've been learning how to use it. those controls have way too many buttons. Mastering this will take awhile.

It has been a really good year - awesome really. Carolyn and I have traveled more than we have in the previous 42 years of our married life. We enjoyed the journey, the discovery, the joy. We've learned a new card game and play on Wednesdays. We visited all (ALL) of the kids and their families. What a wonderful Christmas bringing joy and healing to 2010. Live, love, and enjoy all your moments. It is the right thing to do.

Christmas Day 2010

2010-12-25T12:37:00.000-07:00

Well, yesterday we were able to talk to mum and some of my brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews and other family on a video conference. Today we visited the kids and sang "We Wish You a Merry Christmas".

It was a fun and very family oriented morning--awesome really.

This has been a really wonderful year. Sure, there have been rough moments, but those were few. We had a wonderful trip to visit family that doesn't live in Colorado. We learned to play "Miller" and "Pitch". We've seen some good movies. I think I improved my golf handicap by about 3 strokes.

The weather has been unusually warm so we are playing more golf this winter than we did last winter. That's a good thing.

I think our health is improving. Carolyn is doing very, very well and I'm losing weight slowly but surely. I reached my first goal and I'm working on my second goal. I think if I do this a few pounds at a time I'll get to the bottom line weight of 165 sometime in 2011.

Just a few days left of 2010 - but many more enjoyable moments to come. Enjoy yours. Live them to the fullest.

Hack, Hack, Hack

2010-12-21T08:35:00.000-07:00

I hate it when Carolyn isn't feeling well. I don't know why, it just turns my whole world upside down. I don't deal with it very well. Poor kid. I do try and make her comfortable and tell her to take it easy - but no..... Well, she seems to be driven. At least today I talked her into calling the Dr. I even said I would pick up the grandkids and take them to Barnes & Noble to wrap packages. We all have to make sacrifices.

I did play golf yesterday. I shot a 50/46 -- starting off with a 10 on number 1, that's 10% of the total score on one darn hole. I believe I got something figured on the driver. I can't wait for the next opportunity - Monday perhaps.

In the meantime, I hope Carolyn gets to feeling a whole lot better. So far I've avoided the ailment - fingers crossed and knocked on wood!

My Wife is Special

2010-12-17T17:33:00.000-07:00

It has been a bit since I've felt like blogging. This evening, Carolyn came home and wanted to talk. She offered to give me a Christmas present that brought me to tears. I can't say anymore, but....

I was sitting in the coffee shop the other day and heard I guy talking about his wife and how he couldn't stand to be in the house with her. It was horrible.

I am so blessed to have Carolyn in my life -- for many reasons. Not for the gift she told me about this evening, but for the gift she is every day. She is an interesting, vivacious, talented, energetic woman - who gives her all to everything she does. She enjoys the kids, the grandkids, her friends and family and - hopefully me. There is really no doubt about that... We've been married for 43 years.... and it has been wonderful the whole time. We have our differences - that makes life more interesting. We also both like our private alone time -- that makes the together time that much more special. Nuff said for now!

207.5 -- First goal met! Next step 202

2010-12-06T08:40:00.000-07:00

Well, I did it. I met my first goal, to lose enough weight to weigh less than 209. that has been done since the last post. Awesome! Now to keep on going.

I decided earlier last week that I would like to learn to play pool. I'm going to ask my daughter-in-law if she will teach me. She played in a league back in Blue Springs. I'm also thinking about another trip back home. Just feels right.

I've got most of my Christmas shopping done! There's a first!

I don't have much to say this morning. I'm just celebrating the little things in life.

Can I do It

2010-11-29T08:18:00.000-07:00

Well - it seems the subject of weight and health has come up again - in my consciousness and subconsciousness. I've started this journey many times. But I do want to be around for great grandkids and their precious life moments. I think having lunch with Autumn yesterday might have triggered this oft occurring emotion.

So, today, cold turkey (no pun intended- note previous photograph) but with a greater feeling of emotion and sense of purpose than before. Carolyn has been part of a program (health study) for the past 7 years - she lost the weight and has kept it off - bless her and her discipline and dedication to good health. I lack the discipline she has so her support will be crucial to my success.

I've weighed 213-215 (stark naked) for (no, that doesn't paint a pretty picture) a couple of years now. I think I need to set some incremental goals and rewards. Maybe start for a 5 or 6lb loss and get to 209. then shoot for 201, then break the 200 barrier. I think my ultimate goal is 165 - which may still be a little overweight for my height. The formula for weight loss is really quite simple - burn more calories than you eat! But, that is where the simplicity ends. Our psyches are complex and temptations are in great abundance.

You've seen the before pictures (not the previous blog). Now, I need to mentally see the "after" picture. Maybe writing about this "adventure" will be helpful and therapeutic - and perhaps I can enlist some support. For sure, I will have to take it one step, one moment at a time and face each challenge head on. Wish me luck.

And Now - It is History - Thanksgiving That Is

2010-11-26T08:40:00.002-07:00

One turkey served up with a generous portion of love. We had all the fixings and plenty of em. Carolyn was right about the mashed potatoes - we needed to use all we could muster. I guess there is something "comforting" about great mashed potatoes.

We had wine, a few beers, sodas and such. We played Go Fishing, Battleship, Darts and, of course there was coloring -- one of Carolyn's favorite things to do. She still has books from when the kids first colored. Carolyn has always put the date the coloring took place. That makes for some interesting conversation with the kids. The whole gang was here except for Chad and his family. We missed them, but talked to them later. Chad was frying his first turkey. I almost did that this year - they had an in the house electric fryer at Costco. But, I didn't buy it so didn't fry it -- maybe next time around. The kids were all great and, I think, had a lot of fun.

Today is a day of sort of strange feelings. I think we'll go see "Unstoppable" -- this afternoon probably.

This morning, it's breakfast, blogging, Mafia Wars and light hearted conversation. I've already managed to make a few errors in judgement - but there is time for recovery. (That's as deep as I need go on that subject.)

Yesterday I was able to talk to Mom and all of my brothers and sisters (except for Patti-I kept getting busy signals). That was nice. I will try and reach Patti again today.

Drew and Kindle stayed for a bit after everyone else had gone. We had a nice chat, a few more laughs, and relaxed for a bit.

All in all, we enjoyed a lot of wonderful family moments. I hope you did too.

Thanksgiving Day Approaches

2010-11-23T08:09:00.000-07:00

We are working ( not hard) at getting the home ready for the family to arrive on Thanksgiving day. I just calculated that the turkey will take 6.66 hours. I'll have it prepped and ready to put in the oven early Thursday morning. The house will surely smell very nice.

I got a piece of apple skin caught on the roof of my mouth this morning. Have you ever been through that. It is the hardest thing to get off - but after about 5 minutes of machinations I did finally get it.

It is a beautiful day, cold, but beautiful. If it warms up above 40 early enough, I may go play golf. We didn't get to play yesterday - very high wind and with the wind cold is even colder. That makes four weeks and no golf. My buddies were able to play all three Mondays that I was gone.

I got to use my new Ninja yesterday - talk about making snow cone ice (well probably margarita ice), it really does the trick. Now for some great fruit smoothies.

Road Trip - Days 18 & 19 - Home

2010-11-19T16:48:00.000-07:00

We took our time coming back home. We stopped in Grand Junction and in Black Hawk. At Black Hawk we stayed at the Ameristar Casino. It was very nice - we even went swimming and spent some time i the spa. There wasn't much snow until after Grand Junction.

the roads were great all the way. We never had to change pace or slow down because of the weather. I think that this is a trip where we discovered even more of the wonderful things that families are. We were welcomed and treated generously everywhere we went. The trip also reminded me how we are each very special, talented, and unique.

It also taught me that I've got a lot more free time that I can really take advantage of!!!!! That leads to so many more ways to enjoy each and every momemnt of each and every day!

Road Trip - Day 17 - Las Vegas to Grand Junction

2010-11-17T18:47:00.000-07:00

We left Las Vegas this morning. We decided to get to Grand Junction and not stop in Mesquite. There is some very stunning country between Vegas and Grand Junction. I took a few pictures - will share some later. There was one point when we were coming down a hill that I thought we were going to run right into one of the beautiful rock formations. Whew - the road veered to the right - but it really comes up on you when you are moving 75 mph.

We did run into about a 100 mile section of Utah road that had a posted 80MPH speed limit. That cuts some travel time. We stopped in Grand Junction and are going to sleep in!!

Road Trip - Days 15 & 16 - Santa Fe and Las Vegas

2010-11-16T09:38:00.003-07:00

First back a few days. This is a picture of Carolyn, Steve, and me - at Steve's deer feeder/photo station. The 6 wheeler ride was our welcome ride and its one we won't soon forget. Thanks Steve.

Santa Fe -- we were tired, got there kind of late and didn't do anything but eat a sandwich and sleep. The next morning we left for the remaining 9 hour drive to Vegas. We made at to Ana and Ken's about 3 Pacific time. We met some of their family and enjoyed a nice visit.

Since I had not been connected to the internet in over 24 hours, I had to get to a Starbucks and get my fix. So I've caught up on my email, games, blog and such and enjoyed a brew or two.

For now, it is time to head back to the house for breakfast..... Later folks!

Road Trip - Days 15 & 16 - Santa Fe and Las Vegas

2010-11-16T09:38:00.000-07:00

Road Trip - Days 12, 13 & 14 -- Paddle Boats, BBQ, Horseshoes and Stuff

2010-11-13T08:02:00.001-07:00

Well, Friday was a full day. Everything from paddle boats to Horseshoes, beer to Margaritas. We had a ton of fun. Being on a lake is very relaxing. Quiet - nice long walk in the morning leading to a very relaxing nap on the lanai.

We were up early this morning and got packed to head for Las Vegas. This leg of the trip will take almost three full days - about 24 hours of driving. We are headed North and West - through Waco, Lubbock, Abilene - then on to Santa Fe, New Mexico. Carolyn has been there, I have not. It is something to look forward to.

We came across a sign - Stephenville, Texas. We took a detour - ( http://www.stephenvillelights.com/ ) . We were not able to talk to anyone who actually so them -- but did talk to someone familiar with the events. I wish you could have seen the smile on Carolyn's face. (I may have a picture.)

On Texas - We were mostly driving North, Northwest. Waco, Abilene, Lubbock... then on to Santa Fe. I was surprised how hilly those parts of Texas were--then how flat the Eastern part of New Mexico was. The second surprise (obviously I didn't study my geography well) was the cotton fields in Texas. Huge. We took pictures of picked and unpicked fields, and of the bales of cotton - awesome. It was a very interesting and thankfully sort travel day.(14th)

Road Trip - Day 11 - Montgomery, Texas

2010-11-11T18:38:00.000-07:00

Kurt and Nancy's -- yes, the lake has water. I'll take some pictures. It has been a good day - no, a great day. Most days are great days. The trees here are green, just like they were in Louisiana. I think we are a bit further South than we were this morning, but not sure. Tomorrow we will be enjoying a walk in the local area.

Not really much more to share this evening. Enjoy your moments.

Road Trip - Day 10 - Katy, Texas

2010-11-10T19:46:00.000-07:00

We at supper at Babins, a seafood place. It was very good. I'd never eaten Amberjack before. It was excellent - had a great shrimp/tomato sauce (other unknown stuff)! We had a really good visit with Janet and Johnny. Carolyn's sisters are blessed with wonderful husbands (I think Carolyn is blessed as well - that's just my opinion though).

Angelina, Adam, and Andrew are all (look at all the A's) well. The home is beautiful and the neighborhood just as beautiful. We've enjoyed a relaxed visit. I caught up on some TV shows - Johnny showed me a bottle of Glenmorangie rare malt Scotch - 18 Years.....

Ya know, I don't have much more to write right now - is that an alliteration or what, frankly, I don't know. Please take care and enjoy your moments. tomorrow, it is off to Kurt and Nancy's.

Road Trip - Days 8 & 9 --Gumbo and Lots of Other Food

2010-11-09T10:38:00.000-07:00

Okay - I don't intend to have to buy new and larger clothes before getting home. But, if the rest of the trip is like this - !!!! Steve is an awesome chef - he could take on Bobby Flay any day of the week. We met Berta's best friend Pedra (Petra) at the VFW on Monday. Steve had made gumbo for some couple of hundred folks. Carolyn and I sat at the bar with Roberta, Petra - and a few other folks.

I had what I would call non-traditional Bloody Mary's - instead of a stalk of celery the drink come with a "pickled salad" -- my words. There were pickled onions, beans, okra, asparagus, and olives. Three of those and a scotch got me ready for the gumbo.

Petra had a way about her that let one know here's a gal that loves life and lives it to the fullest. What a joy to be around -- but you have to be open to someone who is openly living and completely comfortable with who she is.

We at a Mexican restaurant for supper - Giro something or other. they claimed to have the countries best salsa. I think they were right. It was served a bit more than warm and full of onion chunks and spices. It was truly excellent salsa. I would say that we had a very "eclectic" experience over the past few days. I'll be making plans to return for a May fishing trip with Steve.

This morning, the 9th, we have stopped at a Starbuck's as we travel to Janet and Johny's. I'm trying to catch up with things and relax a bit - a bit of separation from socialization never hurts me a bit.

Road Trip Days 6 & 7: Missed another Day

2010-11-07T12:42:00.000-07:00

I can't believe I turned down going in for catfish fry - but, I'm so full from last night's supper I can't think about eating at the moment. We had a great skillet of some kind with rice, vegetables, chicken, spices and more spices, and something called Boudin - casing stuffed with rice and stuff. I'll have to look it up later.

It took about 17 hours to drive down to Leesville from Montezuma. Arkansas was beautiful. The trees had turned, but the leaves have not fallen. Mostly browns, reds, and yellows. Louisiana is all green yet. It is beautiful and quiet here at Steve and Roberta's. They have made us feel very at home. We met all the goats, the Emu and Nemo and Jake - the dogs. Christian and Shawn and their families were over yesterday.

We had a nice family breakfast at BJ's this morning - I had grits, a Cajun omelette, and sausage gravey on biscuits. I then spent some time driving around Leesville - but, went back to BJs to do some "wifi" to get some forms completed with Lockheed.

The girls have gone Goodwilling and I'm happy to be here alone for awhile. We will be here for at one more day, then on to Texas.

Road Trip - Days 4 & 5 -- Yes Missed a Day

2010-11-05T20:02:00.000-06:00

Well, yesterday was a good day. We met Mum, Lewis, and Sharon at Tama for Breakfast at the Casino. Then we gambled for a short while - doubled my investment -- (didn't invest much) -- though it was enough for a tank of gas on the Casino.

Went fishing again - too windy. Had a very nice visit with Lana and Jacque - nice she dropped by. We will be headed South this morning. Very light breakfast, Coffee and Tea are made. I'm raring to go -- sort of.

So - its evening... we've settled into a small Motel on Arkansas 71. It has been a beautiful day driving in really beautiful country. I think it will be slow going from here (55 MPH highways). Tomorrow is another day of driving, but we should reach Roberta and Steve's at a decent hour.

Road Trip - Day 3 - MaidRite

2010-11-03T18:38:00.000-06:00

It's an appropriate title for the day. Each trip to Iowa has to include at least one stop at MaidRite. We met Sharon and Danny, and, Jacque and Howard at the Oskaloosa MaidRite for lunch. I'm a purist, so I had the regular size MaidRite (as opposed to the "Jumbo"), fries and a chocolate malt. We had a great conversation - talked about grandma and grampa Collins - some memories of dad and a few other topics. It was good.

After we got back to Jacque and Howard's I went fishing. I caught 3 very nice Crappies and one nice Large Mouth Bass. All in all a fun afternoon. This evening we went to supper at the new Casa Margarita in Montezuma. A Mexican restaurant that replace the old soda shop. Gone are those days, but the memories are still there.

The sign as you leave the MaidRite -- and the name does say it all!

Have a great evening, day, whatever is appropriate. Be who you are because you sure as heck can't be anyone else.

Road Trip - Day 2 - Iowa Week

2010-11-02T17:37:00.002-06:00

Family, fun, food, fishing - what a wonderful day. Hometown for lunch - it was good. Enjoyed the company of Mum, Lewis, Lana, and, of course, Carolyn. Carolyn and I went out to Diamond lake and walked the entire South Shore (only 1.8 Miles). We also walked across the East damn then up the hill to the North road and back around to the main gate near the main lake entrance. It was a beautiful walk on a beautiful day.

I saw Mike - we were down town and struggled to get to the post office. The city is redoing the street and you can only come in from the North. After walking the lake (actually, you can take the 1.8 and multiply it by 2 and add some...) we came back to Hojac Acres. We went fishing - yup. I caught two very nice Crappies on a chartreuse jig. It was fun - I'm trying to put a picture with the post, but I brought the wrong cable for my camera.

Lunch tomorrow with Sharon and Danny - at the MaidRite -- one of my favorite spots in Iowa. It is going to be a chilly evening. One of the really neat things about being here is the quiet and the clear blue skies. There is little or no pollution so you can see the stars and all of their beauty. There is zero noise pollution - no constant police sirens or fire engine sirens or train whistles blowing at 4 in the morning. It is just plain awesome! I repeat, Awesome. What a wondrous day this has been!

Road Trip - Day 1 - the Journey Begins

2010-11-01T06:54:00.002-06:00

Up at 6AM, off at about 7:30AM - no hurries. All the planning has come to fruition. Brothers and sisters called - house sitter on site and instructed. It is drizzling rain this morning (I don't know if snow can drizzle, it flurries!) That makes for nice driving. Very light breakfast - won't be much in the way of exercise today, though I did promise Carolyn we would stop to take some walks-- unexplored territories I guess.

We'll be visiting lots of places, taking lots of pictures, and having lots of hugs, smiles and kisses. (that was a poetic phrase) Of course I'd be lost without my computer - its coming along and we'll be going on line at Starbucks now and then. May your day and your travels be wonderful!

8:30PM Central Time (Daylight) we arrived safely at Howard and Jacque's. 12 hour travel time... I have never seen so much "road kill". Deer, Antelope, Coyote, Raccoon -- in that order. It was awful. The weather, on the other hand, was very good. We averaged just over 33 MPG. I wouldn't call the day particularly memorable. The trip was more relaxed than usual. We stopped when we wanted too and never really pushed hard. We had supper at the Country Kitchen in Stuart, Iowa -- then on to Jacque's.

It is quiet here. There is no noise of highway, neighborhood traffic, barking dogs, squealing cats and such. Just beautiful quiet. It is a nice thing. I've polished off a couple of shots of scotch and am just plain relaxing right now. It is so wonderful. I know - I'm retired - all I do is relax, but there is something different about this - sort of a warm, relaxed in love relaxation. It is very nice!

I think I'll get up in the morning - when I get up, no sooner and no later. Life is good!

Weather Permitting

2010-10-10T08:24:00.000-06:00

Mount Evans Aspen - gloriously gold. It was a beautiful but brief road trip - enjoyed lunch at the restaurant near Echo Lake. It was to close the next day - getting ready for winter 2010.

(Side note: it is interesting - people watching, especially some of the younger generation, how they dress and interact - a subject for later maybe.)

I played one of my better rounds of golf on Wednesday, an 84 - in League -- that was worth 1st in my flight. Maybe I can overcome my one self imposed pressure match. It would be about time.
Carolyn and I are thinking about a long road trip -- a bit over 4300 miles -- it would be a trip that lets us visit all of her "out-of-state" sisters and brother. Also, of course, a stop in Iowa to visit my family. they at least all live within about 30 miles of one another.

We (Carolyn and I) have decided to host Thanksgiving at our house this year. We have a small home, but we have big hearts and are sure we can manage -- we won't all be around one table though.

We went to niece Nicole's wedding yesterday. It was really a nice affair. There was a family art gallery, cocktails, dancing, and of course the wedding - a mix of traditional and non-traditional. The bride was beautiful and their first dance together as a married couple was something to behold--better than dancing with the stars. It was easy to see their joy and deep love for each other. Many of her cousins were there, and all of our children were there except for the one that had to work.

Well, it is a beautiful morning, one with many moments to enjoy -- enjoy yours by living in those moments! Later!

Its Been That Long?

2010-09-26T17:22:00.000-06:00

Hm. I guess the mode just has not struck me to write. I've thought about it many times during the the past 30 days - obviously and hasn't been a real pressing thought. Life is good, the "flexitarian" effort is going well. I've reached Level 1000 in Mafia Wars - my poker has improved - I'm still in love with Carolyn. We've been to Angel Fire for a conference. Life, all in all, is wonderful.

The golf season (men's association) is almost over. I have not improved much this year -- if at all! But, the last few weeks have been very rewarding. I've had several rounds in the 80's.

Carolyn and I went to Drew and Kindle's the other day. We had a wonderful vegan meal - I mean it was awesome. I especially liked the polenta with a fig jam - yummy.

We haven't seen the Chad Fahlenkamp family since -- man, has it been almost a year? I think so - I think it was sometime last December. I think we saw more of them when they lived in Missove been looking for uri - theres something to ponder a bit. I miss all of them. The other kids we see from time to time. Chad, I know is extremely busy - Autumn has graduated and is working full time. She is taking a year off before going to culinary school. I hope she is enjoying the Tiburon.

I've been looking for a cheap car that gets good mileage. Some of my golf outings are quite a distance and the pickup truck doesn't go far on a gallon of gasoline!

I noticed that there is a club in Denver that teaches bridge. I'm going to check into it. I also know that I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT! So, I'm going to start again and yes, I know I have to exercise!!!!

Well, enjoy your moments. FYI - I talked to Mum today - she's doing very well.

I'm a "Flexiterian"

2010-08-26T08:28:00.000-06:00

It (Flexiterian) is one of those newly coined words we are all so good at doing. Well, I got this one from Kindle. As you know, I'm attempting to become a vegetarian. Kindle was very kind and sent me some definitions of vegetarian, vegan, and flexiterian. (Maybe it is flexitarian) Anyway, I know I'm not a pesciterian or a chicketerian. (don't you hate it when the darn cursor jumps all over the place - I think it is the touchpads) - where was I - what a discombobulated post this will be.

Flexiterians have a more flexible, yet healthy diet. We eat meat (other than fish) once in awhile. I like that, because I like a good steak from time to time - and those frozen bison burgers (pre-cooked) are a very nice quick snack - and I do like sausage with my spaghetti. I have learned over the past few weeks - as I begin this journey - that I do not crave red meats nearly so often as I used to. So, I'm definitely making progress.

New topic: Carolyn has finished her cataract surgery's and seems very pleased with the outcomes. We will be heading for Angel Fire, New Mexico early September. It is a beautiful drive and we stay at the Angel Fire Resort. I may play a round of golf on their course.

Speaking of golf, I have not made the improvements I expected to make this year - I guess that will come. I will say that I'm consistently inconsistent. I shoot a lot more 9 hole scores in the low 40's, but tend to spoil it all with a 2nd nine in the high 40's or low 50's.

All in all things are good - had a nice long phone conversation with my eldest son the other day. I'm so glad I'm not part of the corporate world anymore.

So - have some great moments - I'll be writing again soon!

Men are from Mars -- women aren't!

2010-08-14T14:07:00.000-06:00

I swear... we speak the same language, but nothing means the same. Carolyn and I have been married for 43 years - we have a rare philosophical discussion - we tend to understand each other. Its the little things. She'll say something that I think I understand. I'll do it, and it wasn't what she said to do - I repeated what she said - she said "that's what I said", I say, well "that's what I did" - she'll say, "no, it isn't."

Of course, Carolyn is always right - always, really she is right -- I'm just not hearing it right. I do love her so very much. It is simple things having to do with the computer or fixing something or whatever, but especially the simple things. I'm technical, I take a lot of shortcuts when it comes to computers, email, email attachments and that sort of thing. I tend to be less patient when it comes to things that I think are very simple, but can be very complex to others - especially those who are more analytical and need to have things discussed in a more detailed manner. I still think it is a language issue. I've said it before we have too many words that mean too many different things - some spelled identically and some spelled differently but pronounced the same - to, too, two - you know!

Well, enough of this drivel - more some other time!

August 1st - Yesterday; August 2nd - Toda

2010-08-02T06:01:00.000-06:00

Strange but significant. Yesterday was Dad's birthday - thought about him - and all the different ways that he loved us - wonderful man dad was - I think he lived a rich, full life.

Lewis and mom called to make sure I got the model cars and wondered when they would be arriving in Montezuma. I will mail them today or tomorrow. It something Lew works on when he visits home.

Today, August 2nd, Carolyn has cataract surgery. We leave shortly for that - so for now, just enjoying a cup of coffee. Its 66 outside, no golf today or tomorrow - for that matter, no total fitness class today either. I'll have to think of another way to get some extra exercise this afternoon - before it gets to hot.

Today will be full of many very interesting moments.

Follow Up to Last

2010-07-26T15:25:00.000-06:00

So today - I'm going for veggies and fruits - no meat whatsoever... I even had a Southwestern Blackbean Salad when I ate out with the guys after golf. Pretty good - a bit pricey I thought.

I also joined Silver Sneakers - and Carolyn bought me some -- with silver sparklies.... Tuesdays and Thursdays will be my days, and maybe, Friday mornings. We do have a great Center for Active Adults here in Aurora. Now, I'm not going to be as "active" as Carolyn, but I do hope to slim down and tone up some ( a lot actually). I have to if I'm going to make 116.

That bird is still nesting in the little house in the tree out front. I have no idea why, but they are fun to watch.

I've been working on a design for a front yard patio - nothing fancy or expensive, but a nice place to sit on a cool evening - If I can figure out how to keep the skeeters away.

Kairi and Gramma Carolyn are swimming. they'll be home soon and I'll still be sitting here with this computer. I think I'm on it more now that I'm retired, but it is a lot more fun!!!!

On Thinking of Being a Vegetarian (and my sister's birthday)

2010-07-21T07:14:00.000-06:00

No kidding - I've been giving this vegetarian thing a lot of thought - then it strikes me, never to taste a crab, a piece of fried chicken, a nice juicy fillet mignon, walleye, catfish again. so I say to myself after I eat one more each of these, then maybe. Well that would take years - ! then again, there's always going it cold turkey (no pun intended.) So, how do I go about this, because I do think I am serious. (Is there some in between, like a fishaterian - I might could do that. ) What about eggs, I love eggs - eating them that is. I'll have to look up all the rules.

Carolyn asked me to watch this show called - "Eating". Well its like we eat ourselves to death - but, I've also seen folks at 112 that were not vegetarians. They just ate could portions, had a shot of vodka every day and didn't live in the city - that's another approach to it I guess. So, why this sudden interest or urge????? Frankly, I don't know the answer to that one either - but it is definitely there.

I know that I have to lose weight. I've known that for some time. I'm joining Silver Sneakers - I have an appointment with the head physical training maven on Thursday. Carolyn is dedicated - I need educated - but am not dedicated (more obsessive I think she is, but it works for her!)

Oh, yes, it is my sister's birthday today - Happy Birthday Jacque-lee (pronounced Jack - lee.) In the photo, I'm the good looking dude on the left - she's the cute chick sitting next to me. She's changed a bit over the years, but then haven't we all. (Sister Sharon isn't in this picture for some reason - )

Well - thats all for the moment - maybe I'll take this vegetarian thing slow - one or two meats a week (one red - although I've really cut back on red meat - one white - fish, chicken, pork - that sort of thing). Eggs will be tough - maybe vegetarian's can eat eggs, I don't even know that one. So, lots to learn and lots more to think about - why would I change my ways now? Well life is definitely about change - "the only constant in life is change!" Not my words, that's why the quotation marks - but, I have no idea who first said it - probably Anonymous (that guy or gal says a lot of things that eventually become very famous quotations.) Anyway, I'm rambling, that's my way -- live some great moments today. Each and every one of em is yours to do with as you please - life is all about choices. We make some good ones, some outstanding ones, and some of us, some very bad ones - and hopefully we learn from all of them!

Virtigo - Sticker Shock - other stuff

2010-07-20T08:07:00.000-06:00

Ambulance - 1350 dollars

Emergency Room - 2350 dollars

A healthy wife - priceless....

How did it get this way. Its more than a lot of people make in a couple of months. I got to grouse a bit anyway.

I have three new mosquito bites. Some golf courses have lots more than others - location, location, location -- this one happened to have a lot of swampy areas, so, I guess, a lot of mosquitoes.

I highly recommend Pat O'shay's bar and grill in Longmont. Good atmosphere, great menu and excellent food. I had a burrito. That was after a round of golf. 55/46 - one of my poor front nines - no money changed hands, the match was even up - I lost the front and won the back. My drives are very inconsistent - that is because my set up is different every time - you'd think I could remember and take the same set up much more consistently. It is just a simple visual picture. Oh well.

It has been terribly hot in the afternoon - I hope it starts cooling down a bit. We've had moisture, but none lately, so I turned the sprinkler system on. One of the heads in the front yard needs fixed-- I think it got ran over by a car. some folks came down the other day and said they had nipped the bumper on the pick up and drove up on to the yard - pick up was okay so no harm done, I didn't think to check sprinkler heads -- now that I look the tire tracks are right over them - so that is probably what happened.

Gutter guys are coming over this morning - gonna get an estimate on new gutters - absolutely pine needle and leaf proof - we'll see.

There's No Sleep Like It

2010-07-13T14:57:00.000-06:00

Your sitting in a comfy chair, the computer is on your lap (it is, after all, a laptop)... your finger is on the touch pad... 1/2 hour later you wake up to find -- well, you've been out for 1/2 hour....

My Birthday Has Come and Gone

2010-07-13T09:08:00.000-06:00

65 Years Young - that's the PC way to say it these days. My daughter, Kindle, made me a Black Bottom Pie - an old recipe. She had to make the effort to get the recipe from my sister Lana - get all the ingredients... awesome and it tasted it great.

The day was really nothing super special, Kindle and Drew dropped by. Heather forgot, but Carolyn reminded her and I got a really nice hug. Miah called - all in all it was nice. We went out to the Fresh Fish Company - one of our favorites. Boy has it gotten pricey though.

I felt the need to write today - nothing really philosophical or very important. Well what a surprise, sister Patti just called to wish me a Happy Birthday. We had a very nice conversation... made my day. She sounded very happy - well... enough for now. Write more later.

Moments, Precious Moments

2010-07-07T08:52:00.000-06:00

Yesterday - was a rescue day. Carolyn locked the keys in the trunk of the car. Rescued. An event later that evening rescued... but that event brought to home how very precious our moments with each other are. Lanny, call mom at least once a week. What about staying in touch with your brothers and sisters? Why not do the things you want to do. Call th grandkids.. Going to the movie with Trenton on Friday. That is definitely a good thing.

I didn't play golf this morning. Rescuing again. Yesterday I also fixed the screen door and tried to clean the windows. I used everything, windex, super windex, vinegar and water, soap and water... some of the dirt on the screen door windows is so baked on, I can't get it off. Any hints.

I talked to sister Sharon the other day. That was nice. Well, maybe I'll write more later today - and, maybe I'll find a picture too. I like pictures.

A Little Sister's Birthday

2010-07-03T19:23:00.000-06:00

My sister Patti has a birthday today. We called and sang - Carolyn and I. Patti was at work at the new Safety Center in Montezuma. This is the Patti I remember as a kid... I have a lot of very nice memories of her when she lived here in Colorado. She now has a ranch or "ranchette" in Iowa -- where they board horses and such. Frankly, I don't know how old she is this year - she still looks damn good.

My birthday approaches and sister Jacque-lee (pronounced Jack-lee) has one in July as well. I told you I had family on my mind the last few weeks.

I think we'll be taking a trip back to Iowa later this year. The "Class of 63" is having a reunion - it has been scheduled for homecoming weekend - nice touch me thinks.

Carolyn and I watched a DVD of Depak Chopra - 7 Spiritual Steps of Success - a lot like The Secret - but different as well. I think it was very interesting. We also went to see "Shrek" (the newest one). It got off to a very slow start, but once Donkey got involved - it was a lot better. All in all it is worth a viewing.

Well as Depak says "be in the moment you are in..." I agree.

Good Things

2010-07-01T19:59:00.000-06:00

Kids, and grandkids, moms and dads, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles - good friends, pets, birds, squirrels, most all animals, eagles, crickets singing at night, fishing, music, golf, life, moments, smells, feelings, tears, joy, sorrow, tickets to a show you love, theater, art, air conditioners in the summer, heaters in the winter, rain - I love the small and feel of rain, fishing, places to go, a home and roof over my head, a good night's sleep, a fresh cup of coffee, Coca Cola Cherry Zero, a good single malt scotch, a great glass of wine, babies, grandparents, kisses, making love, leaning, moments, the smell of fresh mown grass, discovering, adventure, camping, staying in a nice hotel, dining at your favorite restaurant, Samurai movies, chalk, rubber bands, tickling, being tickled, laughter, a child's first words, a good debate, water, food, chocolate, mint chocolate chip ice cream, windmills, traditions, challenging tradition, UFOs, smiles, grins, old fashioned donuts, apples - nice and crisp, a lettuce wedge covered with blue cheese dressing, catching night crawlers, fireworks, taking risks, tenderness, compassion, letting go, feeling free, being me, you being you, helping a friend, being a friend, sunrises and sunsets, the moon, the stars, musical instruments of all kinds, flying first class on a long flight, train rides, playing cards, Dilbert, Woody Woodpecker, a child's first steps... there's a few seconds worth of thoughts!!!!!!

It's a Bright, Bright, Sunshiny Day

2010-06-26T16:46:00.000-06:00

That's a song you know. A bright, beautiful, joyful song... This morning was a wonderfully cool morning. Carolyn and I went bike riding. My butt could only take about 45 minutes - she road about 70. Her trike seat is much nicer to sit in when pedaling. (that's my excuse and I'm sticking with it!__) It has also been a very productive day - I'm getting rid of some small items that I've been collecting over the years, moved an air conditioner from a little used office to a room where it is needed, and made room for the trike in the shed!

We are going out to dinner tonight (we didn't get out on Father's day). I like Famous Dave's and that's the place. When my birthday comes, we'll likely go to the Fresh Seafood place -- big discount this year. Watching a Hershey's commercial. I love Hershey's chocolate - and fudge - and black bottom pie (mom used to make it) - I'd love some again.

I thought we'd see a rainbow today, but alas it was more bluster and thunder than rain. Carolyn is having lunch with the WOW gals - kind of a reunion meeting. I hope she is really enjoying it.

I got an email from my little sister (one of them) this morning -- it really helped, so, a new mood should be apparent.

I found a guitar book I've been searching for and thought was lost. I guess it's time to get the darn thing out and start playing again -- there could be some campfires with the grandkids in the near future - right on! I've found my moments again - ain't it great!

Can You Hear a Heart Being Torn in Two

2010-06-25T09:21:00.000-06:00

It is a wrenching, tearing sound - that bleeds from the eyes. I'm always so full of hope (last blog) - yet somehow, hope is not enough and action must be taken. This is where values and integrity clash with the feelings of the heart. A promise broken is a promise broken - but is there a way around it, or would that just be a devious way to break the promise -probably so me thinks. So, I'll think on it some more and see what happens.

It is sad that there is now time on our side, yet the chasm is vast - so allowing time to heal. Is it necessarily true that time heals all? I think not. I do believe that there is one gender that tends to "not forgive and forget". Maybe it is all genders - it just isn't the way my mind works. (anyone reading this would not have a clue what I'm writing about - except those who "might know" first hand) Someone has to take a first step, but I promised it would not be me. Funny how promises can get us in so much trouble - when if revealed would clear up a lot of things, but, a promise is, after all, a promise.

I long to get back to Mirror Lake - Carolyn would prefer a cabin me thinks... so I'll see if something is available. I know the picture doesn't seem to have anything to do with anything. But, it was from a family journey to Iowa - where Brooke said, "This is paradise". they were also amazed by the size of corn

In the end, the heart will take us to the right place... I've got to have faith in that - I've got to.

Hope

2010-06-22T09:27:00.000-06:00

There it is. Each day is filled with hope - hope that when I open my eamil or chat that someone I love is there and wants to say something - but alas, not today, nor likely tomorrow or the next day. But, there is still ever and always hope.

Yesterday we golfed at Saddle Back in Ft. Lupton - 96 - not great - I had some really stupid water balls and some really weird wasted shots. Nothing worse in golf than wasted shots - penalty strokes, out of bounds, water, lost - you know, that kind of stuff. At least I only lost 2 bucks... it could have been a lot worse. A friend says I'm an addict - such a harsh word! I do love the game though.

Family in Iowa says they are getting lots of rain. We've had tornado warnings and such the last three or four days in a row, but not a drop of rain.

we are thinking about going to Blackhawk for my birthday. I'll have to check it out and see how pricey it is this time of year. I've been working to get our dental plan, medical plan, all that stuff up to date. Everything changes at 65 - I just get a bit older and a lot wiser. I think I'll check out Kabatogama too.

I've been wanting to head up to Mirror Lake to go camping. I'm working on Carolyn... Taylor park ( http://www.coloradodirectory.com/taylorpark/ ) does have some rustic cabins. Maybe that's the way to go. We could still spend some time up at Mirror, then fish the Taylor Reservoir and the Taylor River. We have not been there since the kids were kids. We have fond memories of some of those fishing trips! A lot of great moments that we still share from time to time.

Lost

2010-06-20T18:06:00.000-06:00

I guess that's the feeling. I don't know. I'm in a quandary - it is about loving and letting go I think. There are times when life is a little bit tough, but there are lessons to be learned from that. It would seem easier, though, if we didn't have to learn those lessons.

Family is such a precious and yet fragile thing sometimes. I think that the phrase "you can only hurt the ones you love" or to put it another way, "be hurt by the ones you love" is so very true. For some, forgive and forget is just not a part of their psyche. For others it is a way of life. My mind is like so much pliable putty - but sometimes, based on feedback, maybe I'm a bit stuck in my ways and my philosophy. I don't believe that I question my values or my integrity - so what is it that I am so "lost" about on this particular day.

It has been quite good. Mandy, Jeremiah, and Kairi met us for coffee this morning. It was a nice visit - they shared their trip to Disney Land with us. We saw some great pictures. They, and Carolyn, then went to see Toy Story III. I stayed home to watch the U.S. Open. After the movie they came over for lunch. It was a very nice visit.

I chatted on line with Heather - she and her family had just returned from a camping trip. It was nice of Heather to share how that was one of her very fond childhood memories... camping, and Mirror Lake. I'd like to get up their this summer.

Kindle and Drew get back from New York tomorrow. Chad is still in Gulf Port. I'm sure Wendfal and the kids really miss him on this day.

I'm very proud of our Children - they've all had their struggles, but they are so beautiful and have such wonderful families -- and each in their own way, are very successful and bring a lot to this world. So, maybe, on reflection, I'm really not "lost" at all - just enjoying the thoughts I have of our children and grand children.

As for tomorrow... it will come.. I'll be playing golf with some good friends and will have a great day with many, many more wonderful moments. Everything will be fine.... if not fantastic. May you be blessed in all you endeavor!

About Dad's

2010-06-19T08:12:00.001-06:00

As I sit here this morning, drinking coffee and thinking about tomorrow, I suddenly miss my dad very much. It didn't hit me so hard last year - but this year, for some reason, it really is. I was fortunate, all of us kids were, that we got to spend so much time with him at the end. Right now, the tears just can't stop flowing and they probably shouldn't. He was such a wonderful man - handsome and very powerful in his way. I can still remember his first hugging me as an adult - on the porch step at their new home.... I started with the usual handshake and he said "let's have a hug!" That was different for him and for me and it was always hugs after that. This is mom and dad in 1991 - Mom is 87 now.

Dad was a strict disciplinarian - I remember how he was with his tools... and there was hell to pay if we didn't put them away after we used them. I understood that later in life - when I found rusted tools outside that the kids forgot to put away. He had an appreciation for everything he ever bought, because it was hard earned and there were lots of mouths (7 of us kids) to feed. He taught us the value of hard honest work and especiallyBimidgi Minnesota with Dick Arndt and my brother Michael - Mike and I planned the trip and drove the old blue Chevy pickup truck - dad and Dick slept in the bed (they had built a cover for it) for most of the trip - we had a great time, then I was off to the Air Force.

I have the happiest of memories of dad, mom, and family. Mike and I used to mow lawns in the summer, scoop walks and driveways in the winter, and then, in our spare time help dad with his electrical business. We learned so much. the girls delivered papers and mowed lawns too. I think at one time, three of us were delivering papers for the Des Moines Register and Tribune. Dad would tell us, no matter the weather the paper would get delivered. If they could get them to Monte, we could get them to our customers homes. And we did -- snow, sleet, rain, sunshine, whatever -- we did it because we made a commitment to do it and what we committed to, we did. Dad was always there to fix broken down mower or bicycle - and he taught us to do the same - that is where we all (all of us children) learned the value of a penny, the value of keeping our commitments, and the value of learning everything that we could possibly learn about everything.

Dad loved to bar-b-que and we always had (Tuesday night I think) - bar-b-que. It was either at home or at the lake, Diamond Lake. It would be steak or burgers or hot dogs, even frogs legs. They were great times and nothing took precedence... not even band practice -- mom came to take us away from practice one night, telling the band director that it was family night and "nothing interfers with family night". I don't think he ever had band practice on Tuesday night again.

When I close my eyes right now, I can see his big toothy smile, his lanky 6' 1" frame - and hear his gentle but very firm tone. I never once heard dad yell, but I always knew he meant business and was full of love. I hope I have given my children just a smidgen of what dad gave us.

Two (2) Followers and Golf Course Bathrooms

2010-06-17T19:04:00.000-06:00

I'm truly blessed. There are two admitted followers to this blog. I know there are more, because they've said so. I'm on my third and last glass of wine. I hit level 600 in Mafia Wars this evening - so, I'm celebrating. I'm golfing in the morning - 6AM - gonna work on my short, long, and medium game. I had a good round on Monday and a fair round on Wednesday. No consistency. If i'm gonna reach my goal, I have to be more consistent.

New subject. This is not your typical golf course restroom. (For some guys its a tree.) For some reason, I like taking pictures of some of the "fancier" golf course necessary rooms - that's what I call 'em. Heck, I can't even remember what course this was on-but, I was impressed. The best one I've seen was on the Thistle... I was so impressed I took 5 or 6 pictures - gotta see if I can find one of them.
Can't find it right now, I tried.

MT said it was pretty fancy inside as well.

I took the Zenith cabinet outside and cleaned the surface today. I got most of the paint and other foreign material removed. Need to use some cotton swabs to clean up the edges and crevices of the rest of it. Then - what ke to finish this project in a month or so. I have some of my dad's woodworking books. They should help with some advice.

Carolyn is off to crocheting class with her sister Susan. I'm watching the US Open. Pebble Beach is something else. One day! (In my dreams)

I'm thinking about going fishing next week.... Quincy reservoir for Muskies. It's Kindle's birthday tomorrow. Heck, I don't even know what day of the week it is... Oh yah, Thursday - it was Wednesday pie night last night.

Enjoy your moments. I enjoy mine so much I don't even remember what day it is!

A Good Round Today

2010-06-15T18:59:00.000-06:00

A memorable moment at Pine Lakes in Myrtle Beach. The ball was at the very edge of the water, another inch and it would have been a dreaded "Water Ball". Note the awesome form. A good clean strike and the ball (which you can see in the air) is headed for the fairway. I parred the hole. (Boy that word looks weird!) If there were a wave, it would definitely lap the ball. But, it was a pretty good lie.

It was really a wonderful shot. Today was a great golf day at Coyote Creek. I was very relaxed, took my time and made one shot at a time. I shot a 44 on the front and a 47 on the back. I won the bucks today - a first and hopefully not a last. Tomorrow is men's league at Fitz. I'm actually looking forward to it.

I liked watching the Haney Project with Ray Romano. Hank's coaching made a believer out of me. There is a golfer inside me somewhere. I can be more consistent and I will break 80 one of these days.

I think I'm still on East coast time - I'm tired, but didn't sleep well last night. Looking forward to a great breakfast burrito in the morning.

Well things to do - so, enough for this evening. Please have great moments!

When the Mood Strikes

2010-06-13T05:12:00.000-06:00

And it hasn't for awhile. Note that somewhere in the first paragraph, the title should make sense. If it doesn't, then I'm just plain off balance. (which happens from time to time). To answer the question, I write when the mood strikes. This is sort of a follow-up on the balance of the trip to MB.

So, we next played:

Prestwick CC (that's Country Club- you can tell by the opulence and the million dollar homes) 18 holes
Pine Lakes CC -- the oldest course in Myrtle Beach - where Sports Illustrated was conceived - 18 holes
Moorland at the Legends - where we held the traditional Banana Split match and where I lost once again

So I paid off my banana split bet and Bob bought me a scoop of "Rum Raisin" ice cream. Its hard to find rum raisin ice cream anywhere and it was awesome! Gordon also lost. Mil and Bob once again were the victors. But, there was a three way tie going into the 18th hole. I folded under the pressure (even after an awesome drive). Mil and Gordon tied and it went to a putt off on the 19th. Mil won! Good for him-he does like banana splits. I can't believe how fast he can go through one.

We found this awesome old ice cream parlor on King's Highway - Kirk's Ice Cream Parlor. It is nostalgic to say the least. A pink facade building with two huge rooms. It boasts a great camera collection and old Pac Man machine and other such memorabilia. It is hard to see how he can keep it open - but he does and the ice cream is, well, the best. (That's Mil in the picture by the way.)

Today is travel day. Heading for the airport after breakfast. There have been some very memorable moments on the trip. Enjoy yours and reminisce about some of your great moments. Make some more memories today!

Where are We?

2010-06-10T16:19:00.000-06:00

It is a good question - I'm not even sure what day it is... so, we played:

International World Tour 27 Holes
True Blue and Heritage 36 Holes
The Pearl East and Leopard's Chase 36 Holes
Parkland at the Legends 18 Holes

Favorite True Blue, Leopard's Chase, Heritage, The Pearl East -- (relaxing and no houses on the course).

For the most part, the courses are in pretty good condition. The greens have been everywhere from lousy (International World Tour) to fairly decent (True Blue). The toughest part from day to day is figuring out the greens, especially speed and "trueness". The slowest round was at Heritage - no Marshall, 5.5 hours, argggg.

The others were pretty average from 3 hours and 45 minutes to 4.5 hours. Health wise, things have been good. I did have a couple of muscle spasms at Heritage and dropped out for two holes... sort of like cramps - nothing since then.

I think the best part for me is the beauty of the place, but one tends to lose track of that. My golfing is certainly inconsistent - brilliant at times and just plain unspeakable at others.

I need some "alone" time, so I'm not going to "supper" with the fella's tonight. I'm having a great time - bringing a bit of laugher (my swing) to the group. Oh the antics as we play. Oh the games we play. I decided to play a $6 Nassau with the best golfer in the group - I'm behind, but not totally out of it.

I'm just me, what else can I be?

True Blue and Heritage Plantation

2010-06-08T19:57:00.000-06:00

These are really beautiful golf courses-each with its own very special character. I had a 94 at True Blue - don't know what I had at Heritage. It was a beautiful day in fantastic surroundings. I don't have the web site addresses for either of these courses, but they are both on Pawley's Island in South Carolina - about 24 miles from where we are staying.

It was just a really great day - not much else to say!

We Went to the Golf Course - One of us Played, the rest.....

2010-06-07T19:29:00.000-06:00

It is truly like I say. Gordon, Bob, and I struggled. Mil played like he was just totally zoned in. I was on all winning teams though, so I won the mooola.... well, tomorrow is definitely another day. We are playing Leopard's Chase - supposed to be a really tough course - why do we brutalize ourselves so. But the guys love it and love to grouse about it a bit. the fun is being with them, enjoying the camaraderie and such.

So, you ask - what did you shoot Lanny? Lots - 56/57/56 (we played 27 holes). But, I didn't get the most water balls or the worst score, so I'm not too disappointed. It was a very nice day too. It was actually cooler here than in Denver.

I Video IM'd with Carolyn tonight, that was nice. she called with an internet problem... I make a pretty good IT troubleshooting guy. I even remained calm and patient. That was good.

I'm looking forward to 36 tomorrow. After Leopard's Chase we play the Pearl East.... should be wonderful!

Have a great day.

The World Tour Golf Courses

2010-06-06T19:34:00.000-06:00

Our first course of the trip is the World Tour courses ( http://theworldtourgolf.com/ ). We usually play all 27 holes. I love these courses. The web link really tells the story. Tee time 8AM!

Confusion

2010-06-06T10:16:00.001-06:00

yah, Okay, sometimes I'm so confused and don't even know what I'm confused about. Couldn't help myself. Just something that struck me as important to write - as I was tweeting with a nephew. Nice here in Myrtle. I'm at the airport waiting for the rest of the guys - sitting in a corner with an outlet -- watching the scenery go by. Shapes are interesting, youth, middle-age, older and so on. I certainly have lost my youthful shape. Some would say I was too darn skinny anyway. Others would now say (maybe the same ones) that I've gone too far the other direction and they are likely more right than wrong.

Why do we hurry to the belts as the call the luggage thingys here - when they know its going to be 30 minutes before the luggage gets here? A time to visit with those who came to pick you up I guess. Its much different at a small airport than it is at a large airport. My ride isn't here yet - won't be for another hour or so - but I like just passing the time and, as I said, watching the scenery - .

This may well be my last blog of the week. I don't know if our condo has internet. If it doesn't I won't get any sympathy from the others - so we won't be stopping at Starbucks or Atlanta Bread or MacDonalds or VI -- amazing a lot of those restaurants are adding wireless these days -- one manager said to cater to the "younger crowd" -- heck its catering to me too.

I'm hitting titleists this year (that was a quick subject change - with no transition statement) -- oh what the English teacher would say! And, there, I did it again. D-. Well - I've got the swing confidence to hit a Titleist now. Its just a damn golf ball after all. I see a lot more pros are using Srixon, Bridgestone, Callaway these days-- Titleist still has the edge... I wonder if the cameramen get a cut if the show the logo on the golf ball? Oh the things I wonder about.

Families - lots of families here at the airport and tons of golf bags..... Its good to see cherry children, parents, and grandparents. (Well probably not tons of golf bags, but lots of golf bags -- )

Life is good, enjoy!

Myrtle Preparation Day

2010-06-05T10:34:00.000-06:00

I think I'm better prepared for the trip to Myrtle Beach this year. The bad part is a "red eye" flight. The good part is, I think I can sleep on the airplane. It cost so much to fly my clubs and baggage one way that I just upgraded to first class -- baggage was free and the seats are more comfortable to sleep in.

I can't help sharing one more Canada picture. This is at a place we call "The Wall". It is really the English River - anywhere from a couple of feet to over 60' deep down river as it meets the big lake and some of the islands. The fish are strong in the river and this is a real nice 24.5" fish.

Back to golfing. I'm packed, the clubs are ready and I took one session of coaching from Sean. I gotta think less and just have fun shooting low scores. Part of the preparation, you see, is mental preparation. I've discovered that I can hit a Titleist golf ball. That was mental too ( the fact that I didn't think I could hit one...). I do like the feel of the ball, but not the price -- I don't use ProV1's.....

A note on Costco -- still the best damn big box warehouse around. Their Concierge service is out of this world. I had to take my Kuerig coffee maker back... They looked up the receipt and handled everything graciously, efficiently, and accurately.

Well, gotta wrap up preparations... ya'll have a really fabulous day - I know I am!

Obviously!

2010-06-03T19:40:00.001-06:00

Quite Obviously-- I missed several days of writing my thoughts. What can I say -- kinda of "thoughtless"? Well we did get back from Canada - it was a great trip.. some beautiful sunsets and sunrises - as can be seen in the attached picture. We got back Sunday evening and we are just finishing all of the unpacking.

I'm just about ready to head for Myrtle Beach. Catching a red eye flight Sunday - just after Midnight Saturday.

Just wrapped up a two day spring men's association championship - flight 3 - I did not do well -- but i think my game is tuned perfectly for Myrtle. I'll find out soon enough. (This text used to wrap, why doesn't it wrap?) One day I'll figure it out -- when I get some time. Need to get the lawn mowed too.... so much to do!

(I'm watching Iron Chef - I love the show -- for some reason, I really like cooking shows.) Who won the latest Survivor - I sincerely hope it wasn't Russel...

Living and loving life!

Treip day - 6 - I figured that out...

2010-05-25T18:29:00.000-06:00

Carolyn is all set! It was a bit cooler yesterday - but the sun was still bright. The boat is running good. Adjusted the trim today - I don't have power trim - so it is a bit more difficult than one might think.

For some strange reason I'm sad today. I don't know why, just am. Perhaps I will figure it out, perhaps I won't - I don't think it makes any difference. My brother and I will be getting up a bit early (though not earlier than today when we were the first on the water) to do some serious Northern Pike fishing. I think he's hands down, a better Pike fisherman than I am. We'll certainly find out.

Carolyn caught the nicest fish in our boat today. Picture tomorrow -- enjoy your moments folks, each and every one of them!

Trip day - a, hmmmm Not sure

2010-05-24T06:49:00.000-06:00

Must be having a good time if I don't know what day it is. It is beautiful up here, but I'm a pint low on blood after today's walk with Carolyn. Talk about mosquitoes and not being ready for 'em.

The fishing has been really good. We had plenty to eat Saturday evening and Sunday evening. tonight is grill night. Wes caught a really nice northern - 26" - just under the slot limit up here. I'm a bit testy today - well a lot testy. Because, I really didn't want to go for a walk -- and then the mosquitoes got me - and, I forgot the stuff that you put on the mosquito bites.

Carolyn started her puzzle - now way will it get done because Glenn and Marci aren't here to help and the rest of us really are not puzzlers. Though we are puzzled.

I'll add a picture later of Wes's big fish...

the Trip - day 3

2010-05-21T18:55:00.001-06:00

This happened yesterday, so what. Carolyn was a like a kid in a candy store. what the heck, it was sort of on the way. She took lots of pictures which will be posted to Facebook or somewhere.

Today we drove from Kenora to Ignace. A short drive. We had pizza at a Pizza Hut in Dreyden... Not your grandfather's Pizza Hut. Totally different menu than the US - and, it was fabulous. We had a Greek Salad and a Mediterranean Pizza - really, really good. We got all our groceries for camp and are having a restful evening a the White Otter Inn - we've stopped here for the past few years. They made some nice improvements and the water in Ignace is finally drinkable!

Tomorrow morning, breakfast, petrol (that's what they call it up here), and minnows -- then headed North! Life is good - nawwwwww, it is absolutely great!!!

The Trip - day 2

2010-05-20T21:41:00.000-06:00

I know, I kinda missed reporting on day 1 -- 3 hours driving in the rain, but we made it all the way through the Black Hills - ate lunch at Cheyene crossing... It was awesome. A quaint restaurant on the corner (crossing) Wyoming to the Dakotas. The food was outstanding and the people - well they were real.

We drove on to I94 - and stayed at the Trail Blazer - it was fine. this morning we drove to Bismark. We spent about 3 hours in Bismark. Why, because the Alien Cafe Bar and Grill didn't open until 1lAM so we had to kill a couple of hours at Starbucks. By about 10PM Central we were in Kenora, Ontario -- The further east we got, the prettier it got. We've driven Highway 1 many times. It is said to see that Graffiti has drifted North of the border. This is the first year we saw graffiti on the cliffs along the highway. It was kinda sad.

We'll do our final shopping tomorrow in Dryden, then on to Ignace for the night. Vern's in the morning. (After breakfast) then on up to Press Lake. Lake of the Woods looked beautiful. Seems dryer up here than it was last year. So much to enjoy - each moment is so full of so much!